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"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
What to say when ppl ask you "What's up?" or "How's life?"?
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"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
PeterCrouch
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Lately ive been replying like this...
"Lifes good, but lets face it, thats a boring question, ask me something a little more....adventerous"
works a treat, most girls come out with something crazy, and then youve got yourself a convo!
if a girl says "ummm like what?" reply by saying "use your good girl imagination" then they normally say im not a good girl, or i dont know what to ask then joke that they are boring and normally you can get into a decent convo like this!
easy!
"Lifes good, but lets face it, thats a boring question, ask me something a little more....adventerous"
works a treat, most girls come out with something crazy, and then youve got yourself a convo!
if a girl says "ummm like what?" reply by saying "use your good girl imagination" then they normally say im not a good girl, or i dont know what to ask then joke that they are boring and normally you can get into a decent convo like this!
easy!
life_of_a_legend
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Props Peter that's a really top reply. 
Just be aware what the motive is behind their "question". They don't have much specific to say either, they are just opening you. They want to interact with you. This is good, the alternative is they ignore you!
Be cheerful, smile and happy to see them ("reward" them for interacting with you). In response you can say anything, if you want to "maximise" your response, have a funny/outrageous/interesting story/observation to mention (you can re-use the same one on diff. peeps). e.g. "You know what I saw ....." or "You know what I heard...". Alternatively, make comment on something you know they are interested in, e.g. if they play sports "How did that game go....". Or just enter a plain old conversation, nothing too deep and serious e.g. "so, you going to x party on x day...". But, conversation skills is another topic altogether.
Be cheerful, smile and happy to see them ("reward" them for interacting with you). In response you can say anything, if you want to "maximise" your response, have a funny/outrageous/interesting story/observation to mention (you can re-use the same one on diff. peeps). e.g. "You know what I saw ....." or "You know what I heard...". Alternatively, make comment on something you know they are interested in, e.g. if they play sports "How did that game go....". Or just enter a plain old conversation, nothing too deep and serious e.g. "so, you going to x party on x day...". But, conversation skills is another topic altogether.
If you get asked common questions like the aforementioned, take it as an opportunity to respond with something unique.
I live down under in Melbourne, Australia and we've been getting some pretty nasty rain. Anyway, weather is always one of the openers girls would use to talk to me, so a good way to respond to "Pretty crap weather we're having to day, eh?" Would be: "You kidding? Its beautiful. Just like the rains down in Africa". That should get them interested... like "You've been to Africa" or something.
I'm sure somewhere in the "tips" part of this forum, there's another line about the tropical weather up in Cuba, but that's another patter (unless you've actually been to Cuba... or Africa.. or anywhere else that has interesting climate)
Then use your C+F routine, or bridge conversations with funny stories, etc. You know the routine... keep her interested, attracted, kiss-close,etc.etc.
Remember: There is no one method to getting a girl's number. Use what's comfortable to you, and make the best out of it
I live down under in Melbourne, Australia and we've been getting some pretty nasty rain. Anyway, weather is always one of the openers girls would use to talk to me, so a good way to respond to "Pretty crap weather we're having to day, eh?" Would be: "You kidding? Its beautiful. Just like the rains down in Africa". That should get them interested... like "You've been to Africa" or something.
I'm sure somewhere in the "tips" part of this forum, there's another line about the tropical weather up in Cuba, but that's another patter (unless you've actually been to Cuba... or Africa.. or anywhere else that has interesting climate)
Then use your C+F routine, or bridge conversations with funny stories, etc. You know the routine... keep her interested, attracted, kiss-close,etc.etc.
Remember: There is no one method to getting a girl's number. Use what's comfortable to you, and make the best out of it
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
L777
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hmmm, ppl dont usually like boasters, when someone says whats up, theyre just doing it to be polite, they dont really care wots up, just say, "nothing, wots up with you?"....thats what they expectcomic_relief said:
Michele l'Arcangelo
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when somebody asks me whats up... i usually fix my shirt back straight and make sure its tucked in right. make sure my belt is pulled tight enough. and i tell them "the sky, the lights, the ceiling" then i adjust my glasses.
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