"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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What to say when it's quiet

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Dj Joey

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Like in the moments that you are with a girl, and suddenly, you have no idea what to say, or think she's feeling uncomfortable?

But i mean, i have a friend that always keeps the laughing and being flirty with them... how does he do this?

Sometimes it happens to me, but i have no idea how i do it. It just comes up as naturally, or the girl is really interested in me, and she keeps talking to me, so I have more things to comment about, tease her about, and makes jokes about it.

But... do anyone knows of things to say when this happens? or when you are in a group not saying anything?

by the way, i'm 17, but im not posting this in the hs board because this could help anyone.

Thanks.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Wait!

Wait for her to say something first when this awfully awkward silence occurs.

Her restarting the conversation would mean that she has a brain and is using it to move forward the interaction.

It would also mean that she likes you to a certain extent which means she is exerting an effort ergo she is interested in you.

If you just can't stand the silence since it's taking so long, just eject shes not interested in you. Move on.

Learn to attract.
 
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you dont have to be talking about bull**** every second...use moments of silence to give her a really suggestive look or use some other body language to insinuate sex especially. the silences are only awkward if you make them to be awkward. silences could also serve as a way to let her come up with something to say, that could also imply that shes into you.
 
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