What to say, when asking to be sexual-friends

[Buja]

Hey everyone

I know there are a lot of different attitudes to the term "sex-buddies", but I’m curious.
Now i'm sort of a niceguy, so i'm stuck...
How do one break the news to a girl that you just wanna have fun with her, without being very offensive.

There must be some DJ's who's got some good idears

 

[duttylove]

if you sexing the girl already the keep sexing her. if she brings up anything to do with a relationship or exclusivity. tell her you dont want it you just want to have fun. becoming sex buddies or what ever u call it is down to her not you. she can either accept your terms for just fun or not. if your not sexing the girl then start sexing her and procedd with the first bit i wrote

 

[abcd_z]

Yeah, pretty much what duttylove wrote, with a few things to add. If you're not sleeping with her, don't verbalize that you want to be f*ck-buddies (stupid filter) with her. Instead, try talking about how other women want you, but they can't have you. Talk about all the drama it's caused, and how you're perfectly willing to let the girls walk away if they want a relationship and you don't. Then here's the trick: don't apply any of that to her. Let her put two and two together. Be subtle about it. Work it into stories that are about something else, they just happen to prove your point. Even if you have to make the stories up at first. She'll get the picture a lot better if she thinks she figured it out herself.

Anyhow, good luck.

 

[Unregistered]

There's generally two ways to deal with this type of situation. 1) Be Honest with her or 2) Lie to her.

Method 1: "I'd like to begin fornicating with you without committing myself to a serious relationship. When I get tired of you, I'll toss you aside like a worthless f-doll. Girl, I want to use you for sexual pleasure and a nice ego-boost."

Method 2: "I love you."

I recommend neither.