"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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What to say to this hot babe i see a lot but don't know?

warrior1

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I'm a 5th year senior at my college, 22 years old. I'm asian male and there is this hot asian girl that i see around a lot this year at my school. Funny thing is i never seen her around ever since i started college in 2004. She doesn't look that young nor old. The thing is all the times i seen her, she would usually fix her hair or do something that is a good sign. Last semester my buddy was with me and as we walked past her my friend told me she was staring at me. I was also dressed pretty decent though. Okay enough of this she look at me whiny stuff etc stuff.

I seen her many times already. I think i see her at least 2 times a week at the library every damn week. Can someone give me some good conversation starters? I read the DJ bible though i forgot many of the things already. The thing is how do you start a conversation with someone you don't know but you see them around all the time. Also, i go to a commuter college if that helps. MOst people usually just go home after class.

I was in the library last week but went to get somethign to eat with my friend. She's Russian and also very good looking but i get friendzoned already. I usually just sit with her in library and when we were coming back to our table b/c i left my bag there, i notice she was sitting on the table as well. I did just talk to my friend but of course i said nothing to her. When i was there studying, i was thinking of what to say to her but I'm not a natural and i could not think of anything. She later just left and turned the other way :down:

the next time i see her will probably be again at the library or at the school. Can someone give me some conversation starters with her? Do you think women look down on you after you don't say anything to them after this long? I definitely wished i said somethign to her the first few times i saw her.

Thank you so much.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Crazy Asian

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go up to her and say this,
"hey, i've seen you around quite a bit, what's your name?
 

jdjd

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Crazy Asian said:
go up to her and say this,
"hey, i've seen you around quite a bit, what's your name?
maybe take note of her books and talk about school to start?

then coffee...then lunch....dinner? then bang bang?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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