"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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What to say to this hot babe i see a lot but don't know?

warrior1

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I'm a 5th year senior at my college, 22 years old. I'm asian male and there is this hot asian girl that i see around a lot this year at my school. Funny thing is i never seen her around ever since i started college in 2004. She doesn't look that young nor old. The thing is all the times i seen her, she would usually fix her hair or do something that is a good sign. Last semester my buddy was with me and as we walked past her my friend told me she was staring at me. I was also dressed pretty decent though. Okay enough of this she look at me whiny stuff etc stuff.

I seen her many times already. I think i see her at least 2 times a week at the library every damn week. Can someone give me some good conversation starters? I read the DJ bible though i forgot many of the things already. The thing is how do you start a conversation with someone you don't know but you see them around all the time. Also, i go to a commuter college if that helps. MOst people usually just go home after class.

I was in the library last week but went to get somethign to eat with my friend. She's Russian and also very good looking but i get friendzoned already. I usually just sit with her in library and when we were coming back to our table b/c i left my bag there, i notice she was sitting on the table as well. I did just talk to my friend but of course i said nothing to her. When i was there studying, i was thinking of what to say to her but I'm not a natural and i could not think of anything. She later just left and turned the other way :down:

the next time i see her will probably be again at the library or at the school. Can someone give me some conversation starters with her? Do you think women look down on you after you don't say anything to them after this long? I definitely wished i said somethign to her the first few times i saw her.

Thank you so much.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Crazy Asian

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go up to her and say this,
"hey, i've seen you around quite a bit, what's your name?
 

jdjd

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Crazy Asian said:
go up to her and say this,
"hey, i've seen you around quite a bit, what's your name?
maybe take note of her books and talk about school to start?

then coffee...then lunch....dinner? then bang bang?
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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