“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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what to say to start a ltr

mr sexy

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asking a chick on a date is one thing but what should yousay if you want to start a long term relationship with her.
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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hahahhhaa. Just how do you think you can ask a girl to have a ltr??? A better question is - how do you know the relationship will be a ltr?

LTR just happen. Im sorry but your mentality is just off.
 

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what should yousay if you want to start a long term relationship with her
There's nothing wrong with wanting to have a long-term relationship. But DX is right, you're a little off mentally here.

Can you ask a girl to be your girlfriend? Sure. Will the relationship last long? Probably not, but it's possible. So what's the problem with your thought process here is probably what you're wondering.

IF YOU ASK THE GIRL TO BE YOUR GIRLFRIEND, YOU'RE GIVING UP YOUR BEST WEAPON, CHALLENGE. Why would an average girl that changes her mind every 20 seconds want something she can have? She probably wouldn't. I'm not saying asking a girl to be exclusive will guarantee that it won't last, but you're losing some ground in the process. You're holding up a white flag saying, I give up, I want you. Make no mistake about it. I wouldn't recommend trying this.

Instead, just assert your presence a little more(once you've been dating for awhile). Spending more time together will probably turn into an LTR at some point.

A little jealousy never hurt this kind of situation either...she sees you with another girl, she'll realize she wants you to herself.
 
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You're holding up a white flag saying, I give up, I want you.
Excellent reply jmm854. I recently asked a girl to go out with me exclusively who I thought had a phenomenal level of interest in me. Of course she said no, because asking a girl to become exclusive is fundamentally AFC. Don't learn the hard way like me.

Stick with the rules on this one. The girl asks to become exclusive.
 
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