"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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What to say before kissing a girl!?

Cassify

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So lately i've meeting some chicks and i'm failing REAL HARD in this stage.

The last 2 dates that i've had were pretty fine but when it comes to the "timing" of trying to kiss the girl i blow things away...the worst part is that the chicks really wanted but they had to reject me cause i did something wrong =/ (there's no worst failure)

i don't know if i was hasty and ****ed up...

So i'm here to ask you guys , how do i realize when it's the right time to try to kiss!?

i aprecciate guys
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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How did you know they wanted to? and what did you supposedly do wrong?

Generally, if you know a girl wants to, that's when you do it.
 

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how do i realize when it's the right time to try to kiss!?

Whenever the opportunity presents itself. You have to be going on dates that allow you to easily facilitate it to happen. As my general rule of thumb, when Im on a date I ALWAYS go for the kiss in the middle of the date somewhere. This way i avoid any awkward end of date scenario....if anything it lets me get a makeout at the end of the date.
 
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I have had more future dates when I spontaneously kissed on the first date. Just grab your balls and do it. YOLOLOLOLO!

To add:

1. You know where you stand with her.
2. Kissing at the end of the date is cliche, expecting it makes it awkward and gives her the chance to reject.
3. High chance of makeout or SNL later
4. Don't give her the chance to Friend Zone you
5. The adrenaline rush feels great.

I never had a chick reject my random first date kiss. Kisses don't mean anything in my book, even if you make out with her, she may still reject your future date offers. Think of kissing as communicating to the woman that you are attracted to her and are having a good time.
 

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Dance said:
How did you know they wanted to? and what did you supposedly do wrong?

Generally, if you know a girl wants to, that's when you do it.
Well i suppose that they wanted because of the situation...i called them on a date, we were havin fun, laughin and everythin else...

But when i went for the kiss things were not that great...we were staring at each other and i REALLY FELT that she was glaring expecting me to say something before tryin to kiss her...
I didn't say nothing and went straight for the kiss and got rejected me...
the date became awkward as hell...
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Cassify said:
Well i suppose that they wanted because of the situation...i called them on a date, we were havin fun, laughin and everythin else...

Girls can go on dates just for free food, yes some are like that, or maybe you somehow friendzoned yourself.
Did you try any kino or could you see any IOIs?
 
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