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You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

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What to say before kissing a girl!?

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So lately i've meeting some chicks and i'm failing REAL HARD in this stage.

The last 2 dates that i've had were pretty fine but when it comes to the "timing" of trying to kiss the girl i blow things away...the worst part is that the chicks really wanted but they had to reject me cause i did something wrong =/ (there's no worst failure)

i don't know if i was hasty and ****ed up...

So i'm here to ask you guys , how do i realize when it's the right time to try to kiss!?

i aprecciate guys
 

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Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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How did you know they wanted to? and what did you supposedly do wrong?

Generally, if you know a girl wants to, that's when you do it.
 
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how do i realize when it's the right time to try to kiss!?

Whenever the opportunity presents itself. You have to be going on dates that allow you to easily facilitate it to happen. As my general rule of thumb, when Im on a date I ALWAYS go for the kiss in the middle of the date somewhere. This way i avoid any awkward end of date scenario....if anything it lets me get a makeout at the end of the date.
 
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I have had more future dates when I spontaneously kissed on the first date. Just grab your balls and do it. YOLOLOLOLO!

To add:

1. You know where you stand with her.
2. Kissing at the end of the date is cliche, expecting it makes it awkward and gives her the chance to reject.
3. High chance of makeout or SNL later
4. Don't give her the chance to Friend Zone you
5. The adrenaline rush feels great.

I never had a chick reject my random first date kiss. Kisses don't mean anything in my book, even if you make out with her, she may still reject your future date offers. Think of kissing as communicating to the woman that you are attracted to her and are having a good time.
 
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Dance said:
How did you know they wanted to? and what did you supposedly do wrong?

Generally, if you know a girl wants to, that's when you do it.
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Well i suppose that they wanted because of the situation...i called them on a date, we were havin fun, laughin and everythin else...

But when i went for the kiss things were not that great...we were staring at each other and i REALLY FELT that she was glaring expecting me to say something before tryin to kiss her...
I didn't say nothing and went straight for the kiss and got rejected me...
the date became awkward as hell...
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Cassify said:
Well i suppose that they wanted because of the situation...i called them on a date, we were havin fun, laughin and everythin else...
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Girls can go on dates just for free food, yes some are like that, or maybe you somehow friendzoned yourself.
Did you try any kino or could you see any IOIs?
 
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