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[TheGambino]

Had this first date with HB8

She saw me get female attention and we had a great night, but couldnt kiss close, my moment f8cked up by a male c8ck blocker.

Anyway 4 days later now I texted her a bit and asked her out to do something fun.

her replie:

Yes we could, but im very busy atm, im still working now and got to wake up very early again tommorow, I dont have much time anymore. So its hard to plan something 'smiley'.

Shes an accountant though, I know shes busy she drives 2 hours to her workplace every day.

Any thoughts on a good replie boys

 

[Darth]

Yes we could, but im very busy atm, im still working now and got to wake up very early again tommorow, I dont have much time ANYMORE. So its hard to plan something 'smiley'.

The most you can do with this one is, "OK, I'll get back to you in a couple weeks" and do just that.

Then, if she still makes excuses, forget her.

 

[Yewki]

Her interest dropped for whatever reason. Pass her the ball and close her case. I would respond with something like,

"Go get that paper, girl!"

 

[sylvester the cat]

Why waste energy thinking of a response to a total blow out?

Wouldn't you be better off spending energy on girls with high IL?

 

[Harry Wilmington]

Need more details: were you asking her to hangout on the fly, like later that day, or were you asking for a future day? Did you mention a specific activity? This kind of stuff matters... I still agree with the other two replies, but for future purposes it's best to ask new girls out for a day at least 2 days in the future minimum until you get to know what they're schedule is like, especially if they have a job with long hours, and to have an activity already planned out that you can announce to her.

That said: she didn't counter-offer with a day that WOULD work, which indicates low interest. However, you need to really clarify for yourself that she's not interest. The best way would simply be to wait a few days, find something you want to get into with her that falls on a Sunday (most people with her type of job don't work weekends) and ask her if she'll do it. Make it something not too time-consuming, like a restaurant or a movie or a visit to a park or something. If she gives you the same excuse, delete the number. Hope this helps!

 

[TheGambino]

I just texted 'Lets do something fun soon', didn't mention a specific activity or day just wanted to check upon her interest to meet up again.

She told me on the date she had plans for this upcoming weekend though.

You can read one of my last threads about how the date went!

 

[RangerMIke]

"Let's do something soon." Is not specific enough which explains her response.

She's an accountant... this is tax season, so YES she is very busy. She really can't plan her work around an ambiguous meet-up. BUT if her interest level was high, she would have suggested something.

Wait a couple of weeks and call her again with a specific date. Try to pick an activity where you two can be alone. Your first date, with all the people around you... c0ck-blockers, flirty chicks screwed up your date.

Typically when a woman says she's going to be busy for a while USUALLY this means she is hoping you forget about it and move on. Could be a test... only way to be sure is to wait awhile and try again... then you will know.

 

[Desdinova]

She saw me get female attention and we had a great night, but couldnt kiss close, my moment f8cked up by a male c8ck blocker.

Anyway 4 days later now I texted her a bit and asked her out to do something fun.

No kiss close, and you waited 4 days to message her. Her IL sank like the Titanic. Time to move on.

 

[Trump]

Had this first date with HB8

Anyway 4 days later now I texted her a bit and asked her out to do something fun.

her replie:

Yes we could, but im very busy atm, im still working now and got to wake up very early again tommorow, I dont have much time anymore. So its hard to plan something 'smiley'.

Shes an accountant though, I know shes busy she drives 2 hours to her workplace every day.

Any thoughts on a good replie boys

She drives 2 hours to work everyday? She needs to be a smarter accountant.

You already asked her once and she told you to go to hell. If you ask her again she will tell you to REALLY go to hell, its embarrassing and makes you look bad.

I wouldn't even reply.

 

[Bingo-Player]

I read another thread of yours about this chick yesterday

You are WAY too involved and expecting WAY too much from this chick , and you can’t even be certain she didn’t fvck that guy who c0ck blocked you

Whats so special about this girl ?

Why are you so bothered about her ?

WHY DO YOU CARE

Her response to your request for a date is weak as fvck and shows absolutely no respect for you

Go out and game more chicks stop being so outcome dependant on just one

 

[SmooveMooves]

Her interest dropped for whatever reason. Pass her the ball and close her case. I would respond with something like,

"Go get that paper, girl!"

This is the best response you could've given.

It's short, funny, assholish, and says "I don't really care, and I know you know that blowoff was bullshít"

Also puts the ball in her court at the same time.

 

[pyros]

I replied in bold


"No problem, get ahold of me when you are freed up"

Then Gambino, you never INITIATE contact again. She either reaches out to you, or you never see her again.

^^ this.

I normally do the following:
a) ask her out
b) she accepts:
we go on a date
b.2) she gives me a lame excuse:
I never talk to her again unless she contacts me. If she does, I ask her out again, ONLY IF SHE CONTACTS ME AFTER I WENT NO CONTACT.

If you ask out a girl, she refuses, and she never talks to you again, she never initiates talking to you, she is NO FVCKIKNG INTERESTED, so do not waste your time texting her or planning how to get her out of the house lol