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What to message her on social media to meet up with her?

Stephen89

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So I was at a birthday party yesterday and their is this cute 19 year old university student who seemed to be impressed with me.

I know her male friends and cousins and I was giving them my story on my career journey so far in the search for programmer, developer jobs and some of these guys wanted to know how they can get in and she was looking from a distance, I might have shown her higher value in front of her.

We both walked past me each other twice where she looked straight into my eyes and smiled at me. I made the mistake of not saying hi to her.

So I'm going to send her a friend request on FB and instagram, should I just message her "hey, how's everything?" and just keep the conversation flowing?

The worst thing that can happen is if she doesn't add me on the first place! (which I doubt because I believe she fancies me).

Thanks for your advice.
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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