"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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What to message her on social media to meet up with her?

Stephen89

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So I was at a birthday party yesterday and their is this cute 19 year old university student who seemed to be impressed with me.

I know her male friends and cousins and I was giving them my story on my career journey so far in the search for programmer, developer jobs and some of these guys wanted to know how they can get in and she was looking from a distance, I might have shown her higher value in front of her.

We both walked past me each other twice where she looked straight into my eyes and smiled at me. I made the mistake of not saying hi to her.

So I'm going to send her a friend request on FB and instagram, should I just message her "hey, how's everything?" and just keep the conversation flowing?

The worst thing that can happen is if she doesn't add me on the first place! (which I doubt because I believe she fancies me).

Thanks for your advice.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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