"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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What to message her on social media to meet up with her?

Stephen89

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So I was at a birthday party yesterday and their is this cute 19 year old university student who seemed to be impressed with me.

I know her male friends and cousins and I was giving them my story on my career journey so far in the search for programmer, developer jobs and some of these guys wanted to know how they can get in and she was looking from a distance, I might have shown her higher value in front of her.

We both walked past me each other twice where she looked straight into my eyes and smiled at me. I made the mistake of not saying hi to her.

So I'm going to send her a friend request on FB and instagram, should I just message her "hey, how's everything?" and just keep the conversation flowing?

The worst thing that can happen is if she doesn't add me on the first place! (which I doubt because I believe she fancies me).

Thanks for your advice.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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