LJC
Banned
- Joined
- Mar 17, 2001
- Messages
- 165
- Reaction score
- 17
The first thing any new member of Sosuave should understand is that the existence of this place automatically gives them a leg up on their own decision to mark a new beginning in life --one that yields greater success with women. But it can also be your greatest inhibitor.
There are some of us in this community that had no such yin yang of information available to us when we needed it most, quite simply because the internet did not exist to connect us to others whom had and could provide it. But still, some men scored easily while others remained lonely. Some men changed their lives and became the men who scored easily: they worked out more, dressed better, became more interesting overall. There was no manual. No terminology.
To put it simply, imagine trying to learn everything on Sosuave...without Sosuave! No Bible! No Tips! No Pook! No moderators to organize it all! What would you do if you finally decided it was time to make some changes for the better in your life but SS didn't exist to guide you through it?
If you seriously asked yourself this hypothetical question you would come to realize one thing: you would have to make a decision without knowing the best details or probible outcomes. But the fact that SS does in fact exist does not make this something gone and forgotten. "DJ"s do it here every day when they give advice. No person on the internet knows your situation better than you do. No one knows the girl the way you do. But advice is being given regardless. Decisions are being made on your behalf in light of missing info. Some may construe this to be a bad thing, but the trend here is decision making, be that good or bad.
This is the element pre-internet dj's had to lean on heavily: Doing without fully knowing and adapting to the results. You still have to do this. I still do this after 15+ years of dating women and 4+ years of coming and going around here.
This is exactly what will make SS both worhthwhile and worthless to you. It is what will forge you into your own frame. It will show you what works for you and what doesn't.
Sosuave simply lists all of the ideas to chose from. It is but only a template. There are no golden rules here. No one idea is completely "DJ" or completely "AFC". Reagrdless of what the Bible says, some of us here can still make a woman swoon with a rose, if done properly. It is you and you alone who will make or break every idea on this site.
You have to step up to that challenge first and foremost. You have to break out of that "what if / what do I do" mode and have a little faith in yourself and your decisions. Learn more from that, less from me. I'm just here to see what other ideas I can toss on it's head. I'm here to see if I really can get away with doing what I was told never to do. I'm your worst source of enlightenment, because I'm too deep and exceptional in my own practices.
SS is your guide, but learn how to depend on, have faith with and adjust to your own decisions and actions first.
There are some of us in this community that had no such yin yang of information available to us when we needed it most, quite simply because the internet did not exist to connect us to others whom had and could provide it. But still, some men scored easily while others remained lonely. Some men changed their lives and became the men who scored easily: they worked out more, dressed better, became more interesting overall. There was no manual. No terminology.
To put it simply, imagine trying to learn everything on Sosuave...without Sosuave! No Bible! No Tips! No Pook! No moderators to organize it all! What would you do if you finally decided it was time to make some changes for the better in your life but SS didn't exist to guide you through it?
If you seriously asked yourself this hypothetical question you would come to realize one thing: you would have to make a decision without knowing the best details or probible outcomes. But the fact that SS does in fact exist does not make this something gone and forgotten. "DJ"s do it here every day when they give advice. No person on the internet knows your situation better than you do. No one knows the girl the way you do. But advice is being given regardless. Decisions are being made on your behalf in light of missing info. Some may construe this to be a bad thing, but the trend here is decision making, be that good or bad.
This is the element pre-internet dj's had to lean on heavily: Doing without fully knowing and adapting to the results. You still have to do this. I still do this after 15+ years of dating women and 4+ years of coming and going around here.
This is exactly what will make SS both worhthwhile and worthless to you. It is what will forge you into your own frame. It will show you what works for you and what doesn't.
Sosuave simply lists all of the ideas to chose from. It is but only a template. There are no golden rules here. No one idea is completely "DJ" or completely "AFC". Reagrdless of what the Bible says, some of us here can still make a woman swoon with a rose, if done properly. It is you and you alone who will make or break every idea on this site.
You have to step up to that challenge first and foremost. You have to break out of that "what if / what do I do" mode and have a little faith in yourself and your decisions. Learn more from that, less from me. I'm just here to see what other ideas I can toss on it's head. I'm here to see if I really can get away with doing what I was told never to do. I'm your worst source of enlightenment, because I'm too deep and exceptional in my own practices.
SS is your guide, but learn how to depend on, have faith with and adjust to your own decisions and actions first.