"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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What to engrave on ipod for gf of almost a year?

eggnawgkid

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I have been debating between engraving the following on an ipod that I am giving to my girlfriend for Christmas. We have been going out almost a year.

1) GFF + EGG 01/14/06
2) GFF + EGG = 01/14/06
3) January 14, 2006
4) Mygf + Eggnawgkid 01/14/06

PLEASE NOTE: GFF and EGG represent the initials of my gf and me respectively. The fourth choice contains our first names only. Obviously, we started going out Jan. 14th.

Please tell me which you think is the best or if you have a better idea. Serious responses only please. Thanks for your help.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Vincent

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And here I was going to suggest "And this will get me laid, rite?" but diplomatic_lies is much more fitting.

Also you guys have some weird initials...
 

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ballsss

hows about her name? either that or one of her favorite quotes
 

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Youre spending hundreds of dollars for an ipod for your gf? Wow, i must be a cheap ass.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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supajsilver2

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Damn, I'm too cheap to even consider getting an ipod for myself, let alone my girl (and then an engravement, sh*t)
 

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"Now if we break up, your future boyfriend will ask about this."
 

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I'm going to post this thread on www.leykisonline.com In about a half an hour go over there and see what they have to say.
 

Le Parisien

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Put "GFF and EGG forever together!"
:whistle:

:D

:crackup:



Seriously, just put her name. If it's "Katie", put "Katie".
Or slightly better, "for Katie".

It's not that hard...:rolleyes:
 

diablo

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supajsilver2 said:
Damn, I'm too cheap to even consider getting an ipod for myself, let alone my girl (and then an engravement, sh*t)
The engravement is free when you purchase it from the Apple store. If you're a university student you can get a 10-20% discount on the iPod itself... I got one last year from my GF (mine is engraved with my permanent email in case it's lost... like anyone would return a 30gb video ipod).
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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WORKEROUTER

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eggnawgkid said:
I have been debating between engraving the following on an ipod that I am giving to my girlfriend for Christmas. We have been going out almost a year.

1) GFF + EGG 01/14/06
2) GFF + EGG = 01/14/06
3) January 14, 2006
4) Mygf + Eggnawgkid 01/14/06

PLEASE NOTE: GFF and EGG represent the initials of my gf and me respectively. The fourth choice contains our first names only. Obviously, we started going out Jan. 14th.

Please tell me which you think is the best or if you have a better idea. Serious responses only please. Thanks for your help.

Number one is pretty cool. Simple yet meaningful.
 

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Damn near a year later I have some questions:

1) Are your still with this girl?
2) What did she get your for Christmas and yoru birthday?
3) Was it worth it to get her an engraved iPod for Xmas?
4) What did you learn from this experience?
5) Would you recommend to any other guy that he spend $400 dollars on a chick for the holidays?
 

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if he checks this thread a year later, i'd be very impressed.
 

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"Sorry about the incident with your best Friend" :D

or

"We were both drunk and it just happened"
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Lol, he hasn't been on in over a year. I assume everything is good, or he killed himself after she dumped him.
 

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Big-J said:
"Sorry about the incident with your best Friend" :D

or

"We were both drunk and it just happened"
:crackup: that's good
 

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ipood to say i love you.

then act all upset their mispelled the engraving.
 
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