"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

Read more...

What to do?!

Status
Not open for further replies.

tamvonz1989

Don Juan
Joined
May 4, 2006
Messages
12
Reaction score
0
Hey guys, im new.

There's this girl that i really like at school.
Every day, during English, she sits next to me.
Today, i made her and my mate laugh, then she looks at me and says something like 'I like you' by lip movement.

What do i do?
Am i just dreaming?
Does she really like me?

btw, im 16
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

Read more...

Skilla_Staz

Master Don Juan
Joined
May 2, 2006
Messages
2,214
Reaction score
10
Age
37
Location
Omaha, Nebraska
A: Read the bible, please.
B: Reread the bible, pretty please
C: I'm 17, it doesn't matter
D: Making her laugh, means something, but very little in the grand scheme of things.
 

tamvonz1989

Don Juan
Joined
May 4, 2006
Messages
12
Reaction score
0
I didnt just make her laugh, i made her whipser 'something' to me.
Ive tried being ****y and funny, always works, but i dont know how to move to the next level, if she's interested...

Oh, and also,

I told a story about spraying deodorant in my face instead of my armpits to her then she started cracking. She then leans over my table and stares me right in the face at about
20cms apart from hers.

Does she like me or what??

Oh and...

Whenever we meet eyes in another class, she try to stare me out and always wins.

Does that mean anything?
 

Skilla_Staz

Master Don Juan
Joined
May 2, 2006
Messages
2,214
Reaction score
10
Age
37
Location
Omaha, Nebraska
I cannot stress the DJ Bible enough.

I'm guessing the next level for you, is Kino. Become comfortable with the subtle touching stuff. One step at a time.
 

tamvonz1989

Don Juan
Joined
May 4, 2006
Messages
12
Reaction score
0
Thanks mate. i hope ur right.

I forgot to mention, while writing some **** of the whiteboard she says 'we have sex next aye?' im like, wdf? then i figured out that she meant sex education.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

Read more...

Skilla_Staz

Master Don Juan
Joined
May 2, 2006
Messages
2,214
Reaction score
10
Age
37
Location
Omaha, Nebraska
Well, if some broad told me we had sex next. My response would be "Only if you're lucky" or something along the lines of "Did you just say you want to bang me? I classify that as a pickup line" and just wink.
 

Vincent

Master Don Juan
Joined
Jun 18, 2002
Messages
3,595
Reaction score
5
Age
40
hahahahaa oh man

Read the bible.
 
Status
Not open for further replies.
Top