"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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My boss is trying to hook me up with someone.. supposidly did all the leg work.. apparently she has a crush on me.. I was given a number told to call her..

call no answer, no biggie, leave a message, go on planning my weekend...

My boss calls back about 30 minutes later and is like did you call her.. yeah, no answer left a brief message..

he says...

"You need to call her again she was on the phone"

I told him no, I called left a message, she can call me now...

he thinks im blowing it...

am I wrong...

I defiently find the girl attractive, and want to persue her, but I did my thing..

what would you guys do...
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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sounds like your boss is an afc. hahahahahaha. dont tell him that tho, he hooked u up and can fire u.

i think u did just what u should've. not so much the not calling her again thing, but more the "u did what YOU wanted" thing.

good luck with the chick. tell us what happens
 
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