"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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trans_am17

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At my old job I used to work with this girl, well anyways I now have a new job I've been at for about 2 months and this girl I used to work with has been coming in lately and shes always flirtacious and talkative to me. But she has a boyfriend. Its obvious that she likes me-the last time she came in when she left she was in her car and stopped for a second in front of the doors and looked in at me. I don't think I should do anything if shes still with her bf. Should I try to get her number the next time she comes in?
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Personally, I don't mess with another man's bussiness. If she has a bf just wait till they breakup. If you hookup with her and he finds out causes unecessary drama.
 
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