"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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trans_am17

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At my old job I used to work with this girl, well anyways I now have a new job I've been at for about 2 months and this girl I used to work with has been coming in lately and shes always flirtacious and talkative to me. But she has a boyfriend. Its obvious that she likes me-the last time she came in when she left she was in her car and stopped for a second in front of the doors and looked in at me. I don't think I should do anything if shes still with her bf. Should I try to get her number the next time she comes in?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Personally, I don't mess with another man's bussiness. If she has a bf just wait till they breakup. If you hookup with her and he finds out causes unecessary drama.
 
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