"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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what to do?

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my problem is that my so called best friend turned out to be
homo-sexual. i found out that he is as of many reasons which led up to my conclusion of him being a homo-sexual.

firstly when we are meant to talk to girls he talks to other boys.
secondly he asked one of my mates out .. but when my mate refused habz said he was joking.
thirdly he is always talking about homosexual activities.
now that ive found out i feel completly disgusted that he didnt tell me sooner and it gives me the creeps when he rings me or tells me to meet him. what am i to do i have been mates with him for over 5 years???
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Morphiex

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u should just talk about it wit him tell him how u feel about it , if ur still disgusted by him then u just have to realise that ur friendship has changed and move on wit ur life...
 
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