What to do??

[coolijo]

Hi all!

I've got some sort of problem...

I'm with my girl one month now. She is 19 and I'm 17 and we are still virgins.

And here is the thing...

She is very ticklish. At first she didn't allowed me to go with my fingers under her T-shirt all the way to her bra. Well she still doesn't allow me to go with my fingers under her jeans and panties, because that tickles her too much. ???

She also doesn't want to put her shirt of so I could se her bra...

But she told me that she will be ready for sex on my birthday(dec) But I don't believe this is going to happen because she is making such problems now(read above).

When I want some more she always tells me that this is the only thing I'm interested in. But this isn't true!! And then I ask her if she's interested in sex and stuff and she tells me that she not so interested.

I'm touching her all the time(on her back, legs, arse,..), I'm kissing her a lot. I just don't know what else can I do to get her more horny.

But she doesn't do anything. Well she grabbed me for my arse sometimes but that's it. But now I don't know if she is scared to look up what kind of pants I'm wearing or she really don't like SEX.

Maybe she only wants to test me and test me and than wait for half year to do this ????

I also thought about frigidity. But I hope that she not.

She also told me that I'm the first that she has had such feelings for and I'm also the first that she had more than a french kiss.(????) But I just kissed her and grabbed her bubs for couple of times I also don't understand this because she'll be 20 in couple of months.

I don't know why she is like this - 'cause she's pretty, thin,...

Now I want to know how could I prepare her for something more than just kissing. I want to move on to the next step I also want to know how can I make her so horny that she'll let me to have her .

Is there any hope for sex in the near future?? Is this normal that she acts like this? And how could I prepare her to take the dress, bra and panties of?

Ok I admit that I'm very interested in sex and stuff. OK I'm just courious...but it's NOT just sex I'm interested in. This is a fine girl. It brings joy and happines in my life.

What can I do to speed the things up a litle bit. 'cause I don't intend to be with her one or two years waiting for her that she'll decide wheter to have sex or not. Because I also don't want that she turns me arround her finger.

And the date for my birthday is also confusing for me. Because she can postpone it and postpone it... And what is with this dates???? I think that spontaneity is better. Why must always be a plan for everything?


coolijo

 

[chlywly]

Oh she's interested alright, she sounds like she's really self consious though probably has had little experience, you have to get her comfortable and get her confidence up... Be a man.. dont be like can I touch? oh okay, TOUCH that ****, but make her feel comfortable with it. Take charge, she needs to feel security in your pressense through your "ACTIONS"

 

[Pimp-sicle]

Girls usually do this with guys the really do like. So feel good about the fact that she probably really does like you. But you need to learn how to turn her on. Tease her my friend!!! Tease , tease and tease some more. Girls LOVE anticipation and the fact that you, the man, control their pleasure. Next time you guys are kissing and ****, don't just go straight for her lips, tease her a little, go slow. Kiss her then pull away in the middle of it. Wait til she looks you deep in the eyes and go back in like your going to kiss her, but instead, brush your cheek against her's. This will drive her INSANE!! Same thing with her titties. If you want to see them in the flesh, make her realize that taking off her shirt will bring her pleasure. How do you do that?? Kiss her boobs through her shirt, massage them so she'll realize that if her shirt comes off, it will bring her more plesure. You could also try the classic 2 finger bra unhook. Always works!! Girls are pretty impressed if you can pull this off and usually even if they didn't want you to talk off their shirt, they'll keep it off once you do this. WHATEVER YOU DO, DON'T ASK IF YOU CAN DO THESE THINGS!! JUST DO IT!!



PIMP

 

[coolijo]

Pimp-sicle thanks for the tips! I can't wait to test them

But what should I do if when I'm massaging her boobs she moves away my hand. Should I stop it or....

If I took her T-shirt and bra off and then massage her boobs can I then move on to her pants and panties?

coolijo

 

[Pimp-sicle]

I usually caress their boobs and then start licking them through the shirt. If you do this right, she'll like the way it feels and she'll take her shirt off in no time. Usually when I do this, the panties come off soon after. If you run into an obstacle with getting her clothing off(she puts her hand in the way) then try getting her horny in other areas.



PIMP

 

[coolijo]

Thanks for all your help!


BTW I posted the same problem to the badgirlswirl.com

Take a look at their replies:

http://www.badgirlswirl.com/forums/topic.asp?TOPIC_ID=22374


Well... just too much. Now I know why they say: Don't listen to girls! Even though some answers are good and honest.

c
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[Beige]

LoL - that Bad Girl Swirl forum is funny. Look at it and then at sosuave, exact opposites, even colours are opposite. It's like a parreller universe out there


What's interesting - posts on that forum don't contradict those on this. They say that you shouldn't force her if she doesn't want to, DJs show you how to make her want it without forcing her

 

[icehot]

Dude,

Hope you learnt your lesson from posting on that man hating forum...But one of the posters on there is right.. your girlfriend does sound annoying! Sounds more like a giggly 12 year old than someone who's 19

-iceH