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You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

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RiceandChicken

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I mean, I kinda already know how to react to it but I'd like some advice on some other things I could do.

So I'm in HS, and in my 4th period this one guy annoys the shi* out of me and I want to beat the shi* out of him. Usually tries to insult me or do some lame impression of me, usual shi* jackas*** do. But I've basically just ignored it but it is getting to a point where I'm am getting pretty pissed/annoyed. How could I shrug his shi* off me and not let it bother me? I mean the guy has my name engraved in his mouth or something because he always has something to say. Maybe jealously or something I dont know. I don't wanna have to kick his as* but if it goes on...gotta do something.

Didn't post in HS forum because responses come in pretty slow over there. Thanks guys.
 

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yougottaknow90

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dont say anything.

just smash him in the face. one good one. even if you get your ass kicked afterwards, he won't pick on you.

edit: i take that back. require more info. what is the nature of the insults?
 

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Yogottaknow90: black people racist shi* ya know. And he usually compares me to a gorilla or something like that. Usually annoying. Then he tries to get on my good side after pissing me off. I'm pretty sure he does that that way I don't kick his as* because he knows I can.
 

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RiceandChicken said:
Yogottaknow90: black people racist shi* ya know. And he usually compares me to a gorilla or something like that. Usually annoying. Then he tries to get on my good side after pissing me off. I'm pretty sure he does that that way I don't kick his as* because he knows I can.
Beat his ass the next time he says something. If you lose, at least you tried to defend yourself.
 

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You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

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The way school systems are it doesn't matter if it was self defense if you hit him you're still at fault. How BS is that?! Thats why HS is not even close to the real world... if someone did that to me id kick his fvcking teeth in. Do that in Hs, youd be expeled.
 

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You may want to consider isolating him and then talking to him in a very serious tone:

What the **** do you want?
He'll say, "nothing man."
You respond, "okay then, and if you pull any of this **** again, I am going to let go of all inhibitions and break your face. You will never be looked at by a hot babe again. Now get the **** out of my sight."

All you need to do is talk. Because he is a ***** and if he had a the balls he would have physically tried to hurt you by now. He won't get physical when he sees you are incredibly serious.
 

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alpha_ash said:
You may want to consider isolating him and then talking to him in a very serious tone:

What the **** do you want?
He'll say, "nothing man."
You respond, "okay then, and if you pull any of this **** again, I am going to let go of all inhibitions and break your face. You will never be looked at by a hot babe again. Now get the **** out of my sight."

All you need to do is talk. Because he is a ***** and if he had a the balls he would have physically tried to hurt you by now. He won't get physical when he sees you are incredibly serious.

apparently I've already given you rep but this is SPOT ON. don't take sh!t from this guy.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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