"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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What to do?

Ace33

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Theres this girl i really like, and ive been doing pretty well to attract her this year but last year i told her how i felt and it didnt go well! But her freind said she likes me now but i texted her on mon and she still hasnt replied, i also tried to start a convo on facebook chat last night but she didnt reply again, i havnt sent anything else to her and prob wont...theres a party tomorrow which we are both going to but not sure what i should do???should i just kiss her, but it could be really a at skl if she isnt into me...any ideas???
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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cdy4261

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ha, well first of all, dont just lay one on her....you'd be that creepy awkward dude who she would try to avoid at all costs.

even if you are really good friends with her...she'll for sure be outta your life if you plant one on her...so no kissing until she shows signs IN PERSON....you cant read body language over texting or facebook...i personally would try to avoid "gettin to know her" over texting...cuz then you just ruined your table talk when you meet face to face..

also..do something interesting..that makes you look interesting

if she personally hasnt told YOU that she is interested...keep acting like the smooth, don juan you are....

women want what they cant or dont have.....just remember that
 

eaglez1177

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Your gonna come off as very creepy and needy if you keep trying to initiate convos with her through txting or facebook. Grow a pair of balls and talk to her in person.
 

sageproduct

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Yeah maybe you could try to isolate her at the party but texting won't go anywhere.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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