"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Ace33

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Theres this girl i really like, and ive been doing pretty well to attract her this year but last year i told her how i felt and it didnt go well! But her freind said she likes me now but i texted her on mon and she still hasnt replied, i also tried to start a convo on facebook chat last night but she didnt reply again, i havnt sent anything else to her and prob wont...theres a party tomorrow which we are both going to but not sure what i should do???should i just kiss her, but it could be really a at skl if she isnt into me...any ideas???
 

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cdy4261

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ha, well first of all, dont just lay one on her....you'd be that creepy awkward dude who she would try to avoid at all costs.

even if you are really good friends with her...she'll for sure be outta your life if you plant one on her...so no kissing until she shows signs IN PERSON....you cant read body language over texting or facebook...i personally would try to avoid "gettin to know her" over texting...cuz then you just ruined your table talk when you meet face to face..

also..do something interesting..that makes you look interesting

if she personally hasnt told YOU that she is interested...keep acting like the smooth, don juan you are....

women want what they cant or dont have.....just remember that
 

eaglez1177

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Your gonna come off as very creepy and needy if you keep trying to initiate convos with her through txting or facebook. Grow a pair of balls and talk to her in person.
 

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Yeah maybe you could try to isolate her at the party but texting won't go anywhere.
 

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I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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