"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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What to Do?

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Analyzeit

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The Story:

I met this girl macked on her, as one does, she flirted back, everybody and i mean everybody said she was interested and stuff but i never really took it further (i'm very bad at reading people lol) apart from meting up once with friends it was good an cruisy meting with friends and nothing happened (didn't really try but im a dj becoming lol), I shoulda moved forward faster but the once chance i did i was drunk. anyway it come up to valentines day and some guy asked her out and she said yes, now they bf and gf, and she kinda stopped giving me signs but anyway people still kept askin if we going out and tellin me shes interested and then a few days later she again started showing IOI's even though i didn't anyway she going out with this guy but shes still flirting what should i do??

Now I know being a DJ it doesn't matter if she's interested but the fact is i am and i don't really wanna mess round if she not interested and has a boyfriend

I suppose i never really thought she was interested because of different things but each day i learn new things about what she does, like always asks people if im coming to school and stuff.

I don't know what to do really, i can give more information but i don't think it necessary, anyway does the fact that she started flirting again mean that she is bored of him already?? and also what should i do?


P.s her bf ties her shoelaces for her what an AFC lol
 
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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Don't do what I (and so many others) do. Don't kick yourself for not having made a move. I mean you probably should have gone for it since it seemed to be no secret that she was interested. Don't dwell on that, just learn from it.

As for her, just be hot and cold with her. You can still flirt occasionally, but don't put the moves on her if she's already taken. If she's with another guy, she's with another guy. If what they have isn't valuable to her, she will not stay with him or at least not be loyal. I'd say just sit back and see where it all goes while pursuing other single women.
 
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Thanks Man, yeah i am kicking myself a lot but your right just gotta be patient.

By the way i like it how you put "single" in italics hahaha
 
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