"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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The Story:

I met this girl macked on her, as one does, she flirted back, everybody and i mean everybody said she was interested and stuff but i never really took it further (i'm very bad at reading people lol) apart from meting up once with friends it was good an cruisy meting with friends and nothing happened (didn't really try but im a dj becoming lol), I shoulda moved forward faster but the once chance i did i was drunk. anyway it come up to valentines day and some guy asked her out and she said yes, now they bf and gf, and she kinda stopped giving me signs but anyway people still kept askin if we going out and tellin me shes interested and then a few days later she again started showing IOI's even though i didn't anyway she going out with this guy but shes still flirting what should i do??

Now I know being a DJ it doesn't matter if she's interested but the fact is i am and i don't really wanna mess round if she not interested and has a boyfriend

I suppose i never really thought she was interested because of different things but each day i learn new things about what she does, like always asks people if im coming to school and stuff.

I don't know what to do really, i can give more information but i don't think it necessary, anyway does the fact that she started flirting again mean that she is bored of him already?? and also what should i do?


P.s her bf ties her shoelaces for her what an AFC lol
 
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Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

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Don't do what I (and so many others) do. Don't kick yourself for not having made a move. I mean you probably should have gone for it since it seemed to be no secret that she was interested. Don't dwell on that, just learn from it.

As for her, just be hot and cold with her. You can still flirt occasionally, but don't put the moves on her if she's already taken. If she's with another guy, she's with another guy. If what they have isn't valuable to her, she will not stay with him or at least not be loyal. I'd say just sit back and see where it all goes while pursuing other single women.
 
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Thanks Man, yeah i am kicking myself a lot but your right just gotta be patient.

By the way i like it how you put "single" in italics hahaha
 
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