"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Hi, I'm training in a small gym and there is a HB 9.5 there that is checking me out all the time. Shes looking at me from head to toe and she knows that I notice that and she just keep checking me out, when she passes near me she looks at me and bite her lip and smile.
This girl is very hot and sexy, I want her and I know I can have have her.
What would you do now if you were me?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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By her flowers and profess your undying love and devotion to her.

Actually, you'll need to approach her before it's too late. The longer you wait the more of a wuss you will seemingly be.
 
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Walk up and either make a comment about what she's working out or just say hi. Shortly after state your name, leave, come back to her later to tell her you're leaving and number close while suggesting a common activity. Or you could just rush her when she's in the showers.
 
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tick37 said:
By her flowers and profess your undying love and devotion to her.
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Haha, I remember when I use to tell guys that. Great line my friend. These guys around here are so funny, hmmm there is this girl that I like, what do I do? ROFL

Ask her out, its that simple. Don't over analyze life, just live, if she says no, who cares, move on, find the next target. Forget that she's a 9.5 in your eyes, she's just another human, her sh1t stinks just like yours and mine.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Definitely agree that you need to approach this girl very soon. Girls at gyms are a big target for guys so just be as laid back as possible when you approach her.

If I were in the situation, I would open up a set with her very briefly. Basic questions ( I had a friend that used to work the gyms consistently) He ended up meeting this hot mamacita from the gym and was banging it for a while. This girl he threw to me when I was in South Beach.

Once you are finished with the set, I would tell her " Listen I gotta get back to my work out, maybe we can meet up sometime. Why don't you leave me your number." Pull out the phone as your doing this. Sets a subliminal message and 9 times out of 10 they will leave you your number. Take down her number and give her a call in a few days. Let me know how it goes!
 
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