"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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What to do???

Craig_87

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Guys...ive failed.....ive become obsessed with this one girl...heres the story..

She started going out with my best mate here at uni....over th summer break, i was given her MSN address...and just got talking to her loads.
One day she just started saying how much she liked me and things......and even said it a second time........

Now were back at uni, her and my friend have broken up...mainly cos he wasnt getting any and got bored....but i feel like i could wait forever etc....

Im certainly not the bravest DJ in t world..and eventually summed up th courage to txt her....txtin wise i think I brought it off quite well.....its now ended up us two "Teasing" each other via txt etc...."Geek" and "Chicken****"....Only problem is. it feels like th texting hasnt actually got me anywhere.....15 txts were sent in one day.......

worse thing however, shes told me on three seperate occassions how she met a Premiership footballer over th summer...and shes going out on a date with him within th week. Why would she tell me this???

Is this just a test...or is she telling the truth.. any ideas??

Im probably gonna get a lot of stick for this, but this girl is like no other....so I feel like I need her.......HELP !!!
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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If you need her, stop screwing it up. Texting won't do sh!t. Ask her to come along with you somewhere, mabye with others if you need to make her feel less creeped out. Then when your with her, give her a reason to like you instead.
 

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ive organised a mass kartin evert...and invited her along...cos she said she was interested over the summer......i dont see her much....bt when i do..she always seems to poke me or something....so i dont think Kino is ever gonna be a problem....if thatll help in this situation
 

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Craig_87 said:
Im certainly not the bravest DJ in t world..and eventually summed up th courage to txt her....txtin wise i think I brought it off quite well.....its now ended up us two "Teasing" each other via txt etc...."Geek" and "Chicken****"....Only problem is. it feels like th texting hasnt actually got me anywhere.....15 txts were sent in one day.......

I don't see a problem with texting her every now and then, and the teasing is good, but 15 in a day is wayyy too much... text once, reply if she does, then pull back
 

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any ideas on the footballer idea?? thats the part tat really has hme stumped
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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oh yea...another thing....since the summer where she told me she liked me....since then there has been nothing...no hint of attraction or anything.....im guessin this means ive missed my window to get with her?????
 

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She'd have said the footballers name if she was dating one. It was a test to see how you'd react.

She must like you some bit...
 
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