what to do??

[mendigoazul]

my name is josh and i'm new to the site. i met a girl about a month ago in one of my classes and after class i walked her to her next class and thats how it started. after that we pretty much hung out every mon and wed and life was good for about 3 weeks until i asked her out now she is acting wierd. i really like this girl i have not talked to her since Wednesday we are soppuse to go to the movies. so i tried talking to her but she does not pick up her phone. i just need to talk to her. i dont know what to do. any advice would be great. thanks

 

[Last Man Standing]

Youngblood, she was surprised by your interest in her because she is not interested in you and thus the discordant response - do not contact her unless she initiates!

 

[mendigoazul]

thanks man but i just need to talk to her to see where we stand. because i dont want to have all these regrets. i want to find out if she is scared or what?? is that a bad thing?

 

[Last Man Standing]

By her not contacting you - SAYS ALOT!!!!!! It's called a non-verbal response!!!!

You'll look weak and desperate if you ask her "Why" - don't do it kid!! If she volunteers info without you asking, then "OK" - Just say "No problema baby hot cakes, I'm just doing my duty as a man!!"

 

[BxPrince24]

DUDE!!!! you don't NEED to talk to anybody. carry on with your life. Believe me, it's better for you. You shouldn't be letting any girl get to your head like that. Fvck where you stand with her, Where does she stand with you? she's not paying you any attention so move on and do you.