what to do?

[Heretolearn]

my friend was going to be housemates with this girl (G)
I met G a couple of times when they were looking for a house, said hi etc

The housesharing did not work out. 2 weeks later, I bumped into her quickly friday night with my friend, said hi. I did not have a conversation in case my friend was interested. I checked and my friend just wanted to **** her to get revenge on his ex * G and his Ex were friends

My friend had not done anything in 3 weeks, no calls etc. I checked and got her number from my friend and sent the sms below:


Hey, good seeing you tonight. Lets catch up for coffee or lunch on Sunday - my name

sent Friday

and...............nothing
no phone call back
no sms
etc.

it has been 5 days without reply

Do you think I follow up and if so then how. I would have originally called but I was sick and had a bad voice. Much better now though.


I was thinking I could have mentioned
*my friends name
when I signed off
so she had a point of reference


What are your thoughts on the current situation and suggestions for improvement.

 

[Road Demon]

Maybe she was busy Sunday, before your offer.

Call her 1x time, leave a message if it goes to voicemail, like " hey name, I'm just following up on my text from the other week, lets get catch up sometime as I didn't get a chance to talk with you the other night, but would have liked to. Please call me back. thanks your name." She most likely won't call or text you back.

Then call her 1x in 3-4 days. No message. If she does not pick up or call you back she is not interested.

Call her in 2 months. Go out and meet more girls.

 

[Phyzzle]

You got her # off somebody else? Bad idea. Chicks get ticked off by that stuff.

You gotta practice choking out "what's your number" when you think there's a chance she might be interested. Don't be shy - you're supposed to get rejected most of the time.

 

[flexion_]

If she was interested she would reply.