"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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what to do?

tobby

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I seek advice from all of you! Thanks to this site, I've learned how to get most women I want. I guess part of it is looks for me and another part is my cool laid back personality. Nowadays, I hear that I'm a "likable guy" from all the girls I'm interested in.

Well, most of them joke about "when are we going to hang out" and stuff like that. I date a few of them, but I don't know how I want to escalate because I don't really believe in sex before marriage. (The sad thing is I'll do everything else! :rolleyes:)

The problem is my "friends" want more than that and I don't want to bust out with the "I'm a virgin thing". What do I do?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Do all the other stuff other than sex then - whats the problem? When you are naked and she is sweaty then you can bring up your choice on sex.
 
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