Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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TheMan425

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can someone please tell me what this girl is thinking?

ok, im at the park playing some basketball (by myself, my friends were at the baseball field) and this young HB7/8 comes up to me all nervous and studdering and starts asking me different crap like: do you have a girlfriend? do you play sports? why dont you have a girlfriend? blah blah blah...so any way she leaves and not a minute later turns around and asks for my number. i gave it to her only cuz she has a nice bubby butt :moon: .

next day, she calls me and doesnt answer. i hear breathing but no answer
(sounds like a serial killer):nervous: . nothing else really happened. next day she calls and tells me she has a boyfriend, and says we can still be friends. wtf?? why even bother coming up to me like she did??

yesterday i was playing ball again and stands there with her friend just watching me from a distance, then comes up right next to our game and watches for like 5 minutes and leaves. at night she wanted to know what im doing at 1:00(am/pm? didnt say) and wanted me to hang out with her and her friends and wants to bring some of my friends. she called AGAIN at 9:00 this morning but i was sleeping.

what is going though this girls head? why even bother calling me a million friggin times when she "has a boyfriend"? by the way im a junior, 17, and shes in 8th grade, 15. i dont even know if its right or moral for that matter to doing something with her, i would still hit it. can someone tell me wtf is going on here?
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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oakraiderz2

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If you want it i say go for it...once youre 18 youre fun is over...haha
 

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I've read this before. Either I have incredible memory, or I predicted this.
 

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She's way to immature. Usually the only younger girls that are worth talking to are the ones that have high maturity levels for their age. But this girl's maturity level is way too low. Don't waste your time and frustration. NEXT her.
 

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TheMan425 said:
can someone please tell me what this girl is thinking?

ok, im at the park playing some basketball (by myself, my friends were at the baseball field) and this young HB7/8 comes up to me all nervous and studdering and starts asking me different crap like: do you have a girlfriend? do you play sports? why dont you have a girlfriend? blah blah blah...so any way she leaves and not a minute later turns around and asks for my number. i gave it to her only cuz she has a nice bubby butt :moon: .

next day, she calls me and doesnt answer. i hear breathing but no answer
(sounds like a serial killer):nervous: . nothing else really happened. next day she calls and tells me she has a boyfriend, and says we can still be friends. wtf?? why even bother coming up to me like she did??

yesterday i was playing ball again and stands there with her friend just watching me from a distance, then comes up right next to our game and watches for like 5 minutes and leaves. at night she wanted to know what im doing at 1:00(am/pm? didnt say) and wanted me to hang out with her and her friends and wants to bring some of my friends. she called AGAIN at 9:00 this morning but i was sleeping.

what is going though this girls head? why even bother calling me a million friggin times when she "has a boyfriend"? by the way im a junior, 17, and shes in 8th grade, 15. i dont even know if its right or moral for that matter to doing something with her, i would still hit it. can someone tell me wtf is going on here?
She sounds smart...
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Is it legal for a 17 year old to have sex with a 15 year old in your jurisdiction?

If yes, go for it. If no, then leave it*.

*If shes 16 in a few weeks and thats legal then keep that in mind.
 

WhAcKeD!

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Where I live (Colorado) it is legal for a 25 year old to have sex with a 15 year old. Crazy.
 

AlexTheGreat

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she failed 2 times if she's in grade 8. sounds like she's not too bright, so I'd suggest keeping your distances in case she's a freak.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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what do you do with younger chicks? nothing. I went there once and im never going there again.
 

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Hahaha. "And she watched me again"..then "She called me, but didn't say anything, I just heard heavy breathing"...priceless. You should probably be scared..next time you see her stalking you...er watching you play basketball, you should run.
 

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One word-------PSYCHO!!!! Run away, very fast.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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kev me723

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That was pretty damn sick mic fiend, but pretty funny and not bad advice haha. Anyway, if you would hit it like u sait, do so. F*ck her, bang her, screw her, do her, boink her, and whatever the hell else you wanna do, then make sure she doesn't know where you live or your last name. Easy.
 

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kev me723 said:
That was pretty damn sick mic fiend, but pretty funny and not bad advice haha. Anyway, if you would hit it like u sait, do so. F*ck her, bang her, screw her, do her, boink her, and whatever the hell else you wanna do, then make sure she doesn't know where you live or your last name. Easy.
A paper bag will also aid in your stealth, as well as allowing you to forget that you're banging someone so much younger than you are.:crackup:
 

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The "I have a boyfriend part" seems a little shady, especially since she calls you at night and always watches you. Perhaps she thinks that by saying that, she'll make you jealous. I would just avoid her, plain and simple.
 

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Microphone Fiend said:
On younger chicks: if there is no grass on the field...turn em over and play in the dirt ;)
:crackup:

rotfl..great feedback guy. i think im just gonna bone her and give her some candy. hopefully she'll leave me alone. if she doesnt, ill take her to disneyland and leave her there. anyway thanks for the advice, i think i see whats going on now. *squint*
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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