I have this profile on a dating site and about a month ago this girl starts sending me messages out of nowhere. We made some small talk for a little while. I was getting bored with it and she sounded uninterested anyway so I never bothered messaging her after that. So its a month later and she messages me last night. Talked for 15min or so. Just bull**** about school and work. Its obvious that this is going nowhere by instant messages. I hardly know her at all but she must be interested if she keeps trying to talk to me. Should I just say something like "i really don’t like trying to get to know a person through instant messages, I would much rather do it in person. So we should get together sometime" or something to that effect?
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
what to do with this online girl?
- Thread starter jd1828
- Start date