What to do with this chic.

[Monoxide_Child]

The other day I agreed to go bowling with this chic ive been seeing pretty seriously for about 6 months. She said a couple of her friends would be there and she wanted me to meet them so I said ok, I got set up but Il make the best of it. Anyway, the friends were guy friends and to anyone standing on the sidelines, she was there with one of them and I was just a bystander. WTF should I do? She acted almost like I wasnt even there. If they were her chic friends I wouldnt care but goddamn how inconsidderate is this chic. Once her friends dropped us off she was all lovy lovy and wanting my attention again. WTF

 

[Monoxide_Child]

comon guys, some insight?

 

[chlywly]

This is a situation where you bust out the "next" attention *****s aren't cool.

 

[Gangster Of Love]

Obviously you two weren't as serious as you believed. Yeah, that is kind of $hity, some of them will do anything for attention. If you have the will and the time, you can do something similar to her, if not, just move on, but make sure you but her balls about it, and then STAY AWAY, no matter how difficult it might be on you.

 

[Monoxide_Child]

Ah ****, she just called to go to lunch I said no and hell no and leave me alone, so now shes hauling her ass over here to "try and fin dout whats wrong" I said she should already know but shes still commin, what to do now?

 

[chlywly]

You just ****ed up, why on earth would you make it obvious like you're pissed, NO HELL NO? leave me alone?

Don't make it so obvious, just tell her you're not interested, and if she says shes haulling ass to see whats wrong tell her you're busy and that you'll get back to her...

Oh well do what you will.

 

[Monoxide_Child]

I didnt say it in those words. It was more lIke no I dont feel like it today and she asked me whats wrong.. I said nothing and she said shes on her way over. I told her what I fellt when she got over and she gave me the
"your the most important person in my life" line. Asked me If she was too close to her friends and I said no, everyone needs close freinds. Dont know what to do. I really like her quite a bit but I dont want to hurt she or I though.

 

[violator]

Let's face it. Chicks do these things to convey the message that they are wanted and pursued by other men.

Perhaps in your situation, she was insecure of the relationship and wanted to spark a little jealousy to see whether you were truly interested in her. I suspect it was a shyt test that she threw at you and wanted to elicit a reaction. This does not necessarily mean she should be nexted unless of course she was plainly disrespectful like kissing any of these guys.

If you guys have been going out for 6 months and this is the first time she pulled this stunt, I do not see a reason to next. Of course it is your call in the end. If, on the other hand she has a pattern of doing this, then it is a big red flag. I would put her on probation.

You have to let her know in a subtle yet stern way that you did not appreciate her behavior. I'd say withdrawing for a while is a good idea. This most effective weapon against women and their BS is detachment. And, next time you go out with her, don't be afraid to flirt with other women to let her know that you have other options should she get out of line again.

 

[dietzcoi]

For Gods sake do not put up with this sh1t. This is the worst thing to me. I hate it when my girl has other "male friends". (AFCs) Seems to be an epidemic. You need to tell her it is bullsh1t now so she wises up in the future. WTF is her problem putting you through this? Call her on it...Otherwise she will just become another attention wh0re... there are too many already.

Whats with these AFCs anyway? They saw you were her date and acted like jacka$$es anyway!!

I do not know which is worse, the attention wh0res or their ludicrous AFC supplicants. God save me from both!!

Dietzcoi