"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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What to do with girl who still talks to her ex

jigga23

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this girl who i kind of started to see is still talking to her ex bf. they were together for 2 months but didnt really even fvck. weird. they text back and forth sometimes and she is actually talking to him rigth now at some coffee shop to talk about just being "friends". im thinking about teaching her lesson and not answering my phone for a couple hours today cause shes going to call me i think in a little bit. the problem is if i say something i might come off as jealous. what should i do?
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Dole

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what KontrollerX says,
"SPIN MORE PLATES"!!!
WOOOOHOOOO my head hurts from spinning
does it matter? you guy's are only 'seeing' each other
 

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Dole said:
what KontrollerX says,
"SPIN MORE PLATES"!!!
WOOOOHOOOO my head hurts from spinning
does it matter? you guy's are only 'seeing' each other
I agree with dole here, go for other girl's or just become more distant with her.
 
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