"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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What to do with girl who says no?

R1ch4rd

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She thinks im sexy, likes me, etc etc.

But we have mentioned me coming round, and then shes like were not having sex.
I've been like im not expecting anything, what happens happens as long as it's natural.
She says maybe we might in bit of a sacastic way.

Is it trying to go up her top? then he she pulls away, wait again and try again.
How many times do you try it before its a NoNo, or isn't there such a thing?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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eaglez1177

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R1ch4rd said:
She thinks im sexy, likes me, etc etc.

But we have mentioned me coming round, and then shes like were not having sex.
I've been like im not expecting anything, what happens happens as long as it's natural.
She says maybe we might in bit of a sacastic way.

Is it trying to go up her top? then he she pulls away, wait again and try again.
How many times do you try it before its a NoNo, or isn't there such a thing?
Im really confused on what your asking...are you asking what to do when you try to advance on a girl with hopes of having sex and then she says no?

And you have to elaborate on the dialogue between you two cuz I have no idea what you mean by "we mentioned me coming round" and "im not expecting anything".

And what do you mean by the question "is it trying to go up her top"? Huh?
 

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Haha That was bad, edit that whole comment man i have no idea what your asking and i read it five times.

But i think to answer one of your questions you'll no she means no when she means no because she'll make it obvious lol trust me
 

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R1ch4rd said:
She thinks im sexy, likes me, etc etc.
Then she probably wants to have sex, you just need to turn her on and get her comfortable.

I've been like im not expecting anything, what happens happens as long as it's natural.
Too serious. Joke about something, make it look like she was the one desperate for sex.

How many times do you try it before its a NoNo, or isn't there such a thing?
Until she says no, and means it (and isn't reluctant.) Two steps forward, one back.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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R1ch4rd

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haha sorry guys.

I just remembering reading about what to do when a girl would have sex. But is saying No, and that you don't believe when a girl says no. And that you should just try it despite her saying no from the start.
 

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u gotta play it by ear bro.. when ur hands go wandering some girls will say no or tell u to stop so she doesnt feel like a slut or that shes easy.. but that doesnt necessary mean she wants u stop ;) ..

You've really got to listen to the tone of her voice and look at her facial expression so u know if shes fully serious or not.. cos if she is u could be in for some trouble haha

if you dont think shes fully serious, dont stop completely.. but slow down a bit, dont be too pushy.. maybe shes a bit nervious! try to joke around with her, play it cool like u dont care either way (which you shouldnt)..

u never know, it could be a test to see if thats all u want from her, u know?

just be cool man, sounds like she digs u, so nothin to worry about! dont put any pressure on it, just enjoy chillin with her, get comfortable and it'll happen !
 

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Dude, the thing with girls - actions speak louder than words. Dip your toe in the water & gauge her reaction. If she inches away, you're moving too fast. Get it at just the right pace, and you're golden. It should be moving fast, but moving subtly so she doesn't notice and give you resistance. Look up the DiCarlo Kino Escalation Ladder. Might help. Good luck!
 
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