Ok, so this situation is all levels of ****ed up.
So I met a girl in November of last year. We got along great, but despite the fact that she kept dropping hints for MONTHS, and we ****ed several times, I didn't date her because, well, I don't date girls.
Well, she started hanging out with a new guy, who is pretty much meh in every way (10 years old than me, works part time at Target, pretty much the most passive person on the planet, if I steal his girl from him, he'd just be like "aww, well that sucks")
I got awkward, and jealous, but still couldn't admit to myself I actually cared about her until he'd been hanging around with her for like a month - like I still talked to other girls, but hadn't ****ed any girls since I'd been hanging out with this girl.
Finally I realized, told her, and she initially rejected me, gave me the LJBFs talk. I pretty much told her I was going to cut her off, at least somewhat because that's what happens when a girl isn't with you.
She immediately reacted a couple days later like she hadn't rejected me, flirted with me, etc. I was on the track to completely pushing new guy out, until I got drunk and told her I loved her (she made my drink REALLY REALLY powerful), which I didn't.
She got immediately cold, told me she wasn't interested in me, etc. We still hung out occasionally, and I didn't (even though I should have) cut her out.
Well, we went camping together about a month later, she started to get all cuddly and friendly with me again, and told me she needed a "smart guy to date" while stroking my hair. I didn't take this opportunity because I *****ed out, something I seemingly did a lot after new guy showed up.
Anyway, after a week of trying to get my attention back, she started hanging around with loser guy again, told me she was basically dating him (which awkwarded me out - thinking back I think it was a test). I got drunk and acted stupid awkward again. She once again gave me the LJBF speech, told me to think of her like a sister. At this point she hadn't ****ed me in a few months.
I was emo for like a week and a half, and then had an epiphany - I had been acting pretty much like a ***** for a significant portion of the time she and I had been hanging out - because I actually genuinely liked her and wouldn't admit (like, I find it easy to get girls to **** me, can't tell a girl I actually care about her, even after I basically admitted it in basically June).
Right before my epiphany, she had me come to a party, and begged me to stay for like 3 days. She kept going on about how I was so cold and ignoring her. She texted me like 6 times to get me over to her house.
At the party, her new guy was there, and I invited a girl (I can get a ready stream of girls). She kept embarrassing me in front of the girl, and bit my hand until I yelped when I cuddled with and made out with her.
The next weekend, after my epiphany, again with her bf there, she bit my face, arms, back, gave me a hickey, jumped on me in her bed and said she knew how much I wanted to **** her, and then specifically gave her bf a bj in front of me, to make me jealous. I drunkenly slapped her in a quasi-playful way (not hard, but in a "I'm not your ***** and this was inappropriate"), she slapped me back, and gave me the most evil, satisfied grin ever. She also gave the same grin to me right before I left. We said no words, but she knew she got to me.
Since that day, I haven't hung out with her at all (it's been three weeks), because she has kept inviting me to hang out with her and her bf. She has been incessantly talking to me - she skypes or facebook chats me everyday, she calls me frequently saying she's bored (while he's there), leaves messages on my phone calling me a bastard in a friendly way, calls me a "scaredy-cat" for not hanging out with her friend, etc.
She has few friends, but I have intentionally made myself busy - I think she may still think I am emo over the situation, and I do sorta want her still (even after the damn bj). She tried to get me to go to PF Changs with her and her BF last night! I told her no, we'd made plans for Thursday (we're going to Canada, alone for the evening - not staying over) and she would see me Thursday. She then continued to ask twice more, over Skype, texts and even called me (when I was at work).
Now, besides the fact that this girl is super crazy (and I sorta like crazy, in a self-destructive/adventure way, the same thing that makes me drive 70 miles into Mexico at 100 MPH), is she showing interest, or is she just ****ing with me? Because I've got like 3 other girls asking for my attention right now (though none are as hot as she is)
So I met a girl in November of last year. We got along great, but despite the fact that she kept dropping hints for MONTHS, and we ****ed several times, I didn't date her because, well, I don't date girls.
Well, she started hanging out with a new guy, who is pretty much meh in every way (10 years old than me, works part time at Target, pretty much the most passive person on the planet, if I steal his girl from him, he'd just be like "aww, well that sucks")
I got awkward, and jealous, but still couldn't admit to myself I actually cared about her until he'd been hanging around with her for like a month - like I still talked to other girls, but hadn't ****ed any girls since I'd been hanging out with this girl.
Finally I realized, told her, and she initially rejected me, gave me the LJBFs talk. I pretty much told her I was going to cut her off, at least somewhat because that's what happens when a girl isn't with you.
She immediately reacted a couple days later like she hadn't rejected me, flirted with me, etc. I was on the track to completely pushing new guy out, until I got drunk and told her I loved her (she made my drink REALLY REALLY powerful), which I didn't.
She got immediately cold, told me she wasn't interested in me, etc. We still hung out occasionally, and I didn't (even though I should have) cut her out.
Well, we went camping together about a month later, she started to get all cuddly and friendly with me again, and told me she needed a "smart guy to date" while stroking my hair. I didn't take this opportunity because I *****ed out, something I seemingly did a lot after new guy showed up.
Anyway, after a week of trying to get my attention back, she started hanging around with loser guy again, told me she was basically dating him (which awkwarded me out - thinking back I think it was a test). I got drunk and acted stupid awkward again. She once again gave me the LJBF speech, told me to think of her like a sister. At this point she hadn't ****ed me in a few months.
I was emo for like a week and a half, and then had an epiphany - I had been acting pretty much like a ***** for a significant portion of the time she and I had been hanging out - because I actually genuinely liked her and wouldn't admit (like, I find it easy to get girls to **** me, can't tell a girl I actually care about her, even after I basically admitted it in basically June).
Right before my epiphany, she had me come to a party, and begged me to stay for like 3 days. She kept going on about how I was so cold and ignoring her. She texted me like 6 times to get me over to her house.
At the party, her new guy was there, and I invited a girl (I can get a ready stream of girls). She kept embarrassing me in front of the girl, and bit my hand until I yelped when I cuddled with and made out with her.
The next weekend, after my epiphany, again with her bf there, she bit my face, arms, back, gave me a hickey, jumped on me in her bed and said she knew how much I wanted to **** her, and then specifically gave her bf a bj in front of me, to make me jealous. I drunkenly slapped her in a quasi-playful way (not hard, but in a "I'm not your ***** and this was inappropriate"), she slapped me back, and gave me the most evil, satisfied grin ever. She also gave the same grin to me right before I left. We said no words, but she knew she got to me.
Since that day, I haven't hung out with her at all (it's been three weeks), because she has kept inviting me to hang out with her and her bf. She has been incessantly talking to me - she skypes or facebook chats me everyday, she calls me frequently saying she's bored (while he's there), leaves messages on my phone calling me a bastard in a friendly way, calls me a "scaredy-cat" for not hanging out with her friend, etc.
She has few friends, but I have intentionally made myself busy - I think she may still think I am emo over the situation, and I do sorta want her still (even after the damn bj). She tried to get me to go to PF Changs with her and her BF last night! I told her no, we'd made plans for Thursday (we're going to Canada, alone for the evening - not staying over) and she would see me Thursday. She then continued to ask twice more, over Skype, texts and even called me (when I was at work).
Now, besides the fact that this girl is super crazy (and I sorta like crazy, in a self-destructive/adventure way, the same thing that makes me drive 70 miles into Mexico at 100 MPH), is she showing interest, or is she just ****ing with me? Because I've got like 3 other girls asking for my attention right now (though none are as hot as she is)
