"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Bonez

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Friends accuse you of slumming?

Theres this one girl that I've had my eye on for about a year now. I still have morals, I wouldn't sleep with while she had a boyfriend, and now she is single.

Last night I was a nervous wreck. I could barely speak with her, I was always thinking back to what my friends were saying to me. Some guys telling me shes crazy, and others asking me "you slumming tonight". I let it slip once that somebody accused her of being crazy and I got a helluva story about her ex boyfriend. I knew it was all true too, I've heard the story from other girls.

So I was torn in a few directions, she was beaten up by him, thats why they aren't together anymore. My friends are going to think less of me if I sleep with her( at least I think so). And I want her bad, but hell, if she stuck with an abuser for over a year than there must be something really wrong with her.

I still want her hella bad though, **** do I ever want to bone this little nymph.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Maybe your friends are jealous. Is she easy? If she isn't easy, then most likely one of them either tried to approach, or were intimidated.

This was the case with one of my exes years ago. She was totally hot, and totally unreachable to the average chump. My boys told me she was a little off, and a druggie.

Turns out she was crazy in a great way (unique, smart, didn't follow the crowd, had her own damn mind), and she hadn't done a single drug in her life, not even chronic!!!

I loved that girl. She left me to go to college in another country. That almost killed me!
 
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