Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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What to do when you're not physically attracted to someone

JustWuzzle

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I went out with a chick I met on Pof today She was super cool. She had some very good features nice really freakin smart. She's just not the best looking, I like her but don't want to get nothing started I can't finish.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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PapiChulo

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Friendzone the b!tch as you were hb9.5.
 

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JustWuzzle said:
but don't want to get nothing started I can't finish.
? What do you mean by that.

Either:

1) don't bang her, no contact
2) don't bang her, friendzone
3) bang her, then no contact
4) bang her, then friendzone
5) bang her, then relationship

This ain't rocket science, kid.
 

JustWuzzle

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I meant bout to bang her no Hard on. I'm gonna hang out with her some more cause she's cool thinking bout keep us friends though
 

Naughty Ninja

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Not a big deal. So you don't like her like that. Keep emailing other chicks and let her know you want to be friends. If she doesn't like it...Move on. No big deal.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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jakeyboy

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If you're just really attracted to her personality and nothing more, that's the start of a great friendship right there! And I think you should keep it that way.
 

JustWuzzle

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jakeyboy said:
If you're just really attracted to her personality and nothing more, that's the start of a great friendship right there! And I think you should keep it that way.
Maybe we still talk she's more stable then a lot of girls her age. I know her brother so maybe I could branch out plus she invited me to bible study.
 
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