"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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What to do when your target is being horded by guys?

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I was out over the weekend, and a target was in the room. Very attractive, talkative, open to conversation- the type of girl that will have guys who know her all over her at the bar. My question is, what do you do in this situation. You're trying to get a conversation going with her, and a guy walks by and hugs her and starts talking to her. Another chats her up and sits down with her, and you're stuck in a 3 person conversation. This goes on all night, and the guys who don't know her already are lookin at her. What's the best strategy here, besides not being needy and being cool?
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Isolation.

You are going to get no where with her quickly unless you move her to a place where it is just the two of you. Get her number, take her out on her own.
 
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