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what to do when your GF´s grampa dies

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okay the situation is my gf´s grampa died last tuesday and she´s been really down because of it... doesn´t want to go out with me, i´m trying to get her mind out of the death but it´s quite impossible for now at least,

the other day i was talking to her over the phone and she gives, i don´t think we can have a relationship right now, keep in mind I DON´T WANT TO NEXT HER, and of course i said that after all that we´ve been through i would not let this happen.

now the big question what to do do get herto go out with me again... other than stay pn her side all the time and give support, cause i miss her freakin lips :p

help ^^

oh btw: i dun give a **** about ppl calling me an afc cause im not i just really like this girl and want to try to have a lasting relationship with her.
 

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Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

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AFC

wtf is everyone so worried about being called an AFC, everyone has to be Don Juans. I mean common.

Anyway, stay by her side and if ur missin the poon, cheat on her with some far away girl.
 
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Step off.

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Copy-cat. I know it's you, playa. Only a fool like you would pull some cr@p like this. Get your own name!

:rolleyes:
 

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She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

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Originally posted by vinch
...the other day i was talking to her over the phone and she gives, i don´t think we can have a relationship right now, keep in mind I DON´T WANT TO NEXT HER, and of course i said that after all that we´ve been through i would not let this happen...
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you said that after all that you've been through you would not let this happen? So regardless if she wants to stay together or break up, you would not let this happen. That makes you sound like a desperate needy loser control freak that could never get another girl, and knows it. Geez, just the thought of another date with you would probably make her vomit.

This has nothing to do with her grampa's death, it's all about getting rid of you, and who can blame her?

There is however a positive side to all this. Since you are only 17, did you really want to date this girl for the rest of your life? Well now you have the green light to play the field and it's all her idea. Have fun and if you show her you are not the clingy needy lucky to worship the ground she walks on creep that she thinks you are, you'll have another shot at her eventually. Till then go for the gusto... you only live once... so many women, so little time.
 
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