I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Rule of thumb...
You're always a 'plate', unless she's trying to lock you down.
Next time you won't be so surprised.
Yes, the game is brutal. So, play to win.
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Thank you my fellow DJ
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
Thanks man, I appreciate your inputGood point, @wifehunter!
Let’s expand this further
Don’t ask in your head: “how many plates are set on her table?”
Do ask in your head: “how many plates are set on my table?”
If you’re a one date per week guy in the short-term game... assume those other days of the week are filled with other plates...
‘Tis a battle of valued options in quality and quantity after all