"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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what to do when you have had sex with her? what next?

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mka

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Hey guys,

Wat to do when you have had sex with her? What next?

Ofcourse I know..
that you will have to call her the next day..

But what I mean is...
How can I turn it into a relationship FB or LTR

and

-Who is going to call?
-What things are we going to do next?
-How to keep her attracted to you?
-How to not screw it up?
etc..

I just would like to have an emotional relationship

What to do when she tells you that she will call you...
how to respond to that...
Is this then a ****test ? or some other form of this ?
Is letting her calling you.. is that giving your power away?

-How to be in control and still being the one that leads..

The reason of this post is..
because I lost a girl.. and I had sex with her...
I now try to focus on other girls...
I couldn't wait to call her.. I called after 3 days...
and she didn't take up the phone..
she didn't return any messages...
Before this.........
she told me she would call me.. and that she was buys
this week.. and when she had time.. she would call me...
and I didn't know for sure.. she would call me....
I couldn't wait for 5 days and thinking about her
all week.. I did not have the patient for that...
that is why I called her....

Greatings master knight adventurer...
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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check_mate_kid_uk

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damn i lost the link to the mathematical equation governing everything you do in a relationship!

Do you want some one to tell you exactly what to do every step of the way, do you want the board to govern control and dectate every action you make every word you say? would you like me to come and hold your hand for you on your next date?

The boards are for help, but being a DJ is about making your own descision. If you have learnt it is bad to relie on the girl, relie on yourself, why should you be relieing on us every step of the way, do i need to remind you to go get a glass of water now so you do not dehydrate?

you have to make the descision, we are here to help, just remember the key principals, do not be desprate for example so no you do not call as soon as you get home. You should make decisions using your knowledge not asking us to decide when you should call her next what you should say.
 

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Originally posted by check_mate_kid_uk
damn i lost the link to the mathematical equation governing everything you do in a relationship!

Do you want some one to tell you exactly what to do every step of the way, do you want the board to govern control and dectate every action you make every word you say? would you like me to come and hold your hand for you on your next date?

The boards are for help, but being a DJ is about making your own descision. If you have learnt it is bad to relie on the girl, relie on yourself, why should you be relieing on us every step of the way, do i need to remind you to go get a glass of water now so you do not dehydrate?

you have to make the descision, we are here to help, just remember the key principals, do not be desprate for example so no you do not call as soon as you get home. You should make decisions using your knowledge not asking us to decide when you should call her next what you should say.
WELL PUT!
 

mka

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I get the message

Master knight adventurer..
 

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“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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