"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

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Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

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what to do when you have had sex with her? what next?

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Hey guys,

Wat to do when you have had sex with her? What next?

Ofcourse I know..
that you will have to call her the next day..

But what I mean is...
How can I turn it into a relationship FB or LTR

and

-Who is going to call?
-What things are we going to do next?
-How to keep her attracted to you?
-How to not screw it up?
etc..

I just would like to have an emotional relationship

What to do when she tells you that she will call you...
how to respond to that...
Is this then a ****test ? or some other form of this ?
Is letting her calling you.. is that giving your power away?

-How to be in control and still being the one that leads..

The reason of this post is..
because I lost a girl.. and I had sex with her...
I now try to focus on other girls...
I couldn't wait to call her.. I called after 3 days...
and she didn't take up the phone..
she didn't return any messages...
Before this.........
she told me she would call me.. and that she was buys
this week.. and when she had time.. she would call me...
and I didn't know for sure.. she would call me....
I couldn't wait for 5 days and thinking about her
all week.. I did not have the patient for that...
that is why I called her....

Greatings master knight adventurer...
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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damn i lost the link to the mathematical equation governing everything you do in a relationship!

Do you want some one to tell you exactly what to do every step of the way, do you want the board to govern control and dectate every action you make every word you say? would you like me to come and hold your hand for you on your next date?

The boards are for help, but being a DJ is about making your own descision. If you have learnt it is bad to relie on the girl, relie on yourself, why should you be relieing on us every step of the way, do i need to remind you to go get a glass of water now so you do not dehydrate?

you have to make the descision, we are here to help, just remember the key principals, do not be desprate for example so no you do not call as soon as you get home. You should make decisions using your knowledge not asking us to decide when you should call her next what you should say.
 
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Originally posted by check_mate_kid_uk
damn i lost the link to the mathematical equation governing everything you do in a relationship!

Do you want some one to tell you exactly what to do every step of the way, do you want the board to govern control and dectate every action you make every word you say? would you like me to come and hold your hand for you on your next date?

The boards are for help, but being a DJ is about making your own descision. If you have learnt it is bad to relie on the girl, relie on yourself, why should you be relieing on us every step of the way, do i need to remind you to go get a glass of water now so you do not dehydrate?

you have to make the descision, we are here to help, just remember the key principals, do not be desprate for example so no you do not call as soon as you get home. You should make decisions using your knowledge not asking us to decide when you should call her next what you should say.
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I get the message

Master knight adventurer..
 
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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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