"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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what to do when ur BEST FRIEND acts like world-class bastard

dave007

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i kno lifes tough withouta friend..but wat do u do wen ur best friend is actin like the way u'll learn in a short while?
he and i , have been the best friends for like 6 years now...but recently
hes bin actn a lil interestin manner
he folows another guy he came to kno quite well this year like mad...its like even if i and my best friend are talkin..nd if he spots this new guy..he would just leave without a word in the middle of the conversation!!...he follows the new guy every goddam place he goes..n then says that it is i whu doesnt talk to him...
i don mind givin him a nice sexy lecture on how to behave..but i don wanna spoil my friendship..cuz he means a lot to me..
what do i do??
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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ok answer these first cuz im confused

a) are u gay (no offence but "nice sexy lecture" sounds gay)
b) is ur buddy gay cuz trailing another guy....
c) how old are u guys and what grade (makes a difference)
 

Grand Wizzard Alamar

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we need a book on the gay and lesbien communities -_-
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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