"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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What To Do When The Chick In The Pic, Isn't The Chick Your Looking At

Maximus Rex

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Leave. Your under no obligation to to spend TIME AND MONEY on a chick that has blantally misrepresented herself. But Rex, is that's being shallow? No. I can argue that the chick is the shallow one because she posted a picture of herself knowing that she no longer looks like the photograph. She's the one putting the premium on looks, not you.

If your in a steakhouse and you order the filets mignons, and the waiter brings you a t-bone, you sending it back no questions asked. If you order a drink and bartender f*cks your drink up, your going to ask for another. The same principle applies. You responded to an ad with a hot chick in it. You should get that hot chick, not her newer fatter self.

This is why I say that you should only mess with chicks from the Net that have web cams. It elimates the guess work as far as looks are concerned, but if you do respond to the ad with the hot chick in it, make it plan that you expect to meet the chick in the picture. If somebody other than the chick in the picture shows up your going to leave. As a matter of do this. Have dinner, then stick her with the bill. When she asks "I thought you were paying?" Respond with, "I thought you were hot."
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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THE_ADDMAN

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lol, nice.

yep, thats dishonesty, dont tolerate it.
 

Desdinova

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As a matter of do this. Have dinner, then stick her with the bill. When she asks "I thought you were paying?" Respond with, "I thought you were hot."
With the exception of this part, good post and I agree. I think it would be enough to tell her that she misrepresented herself on the net, and that you don't waste your time with people who aren't happy with themselves. Then, leave.
 

john_1234

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haha, this reminds me of two internet encounters i've had in the past. man, these two girls totally misrepresented themselves. how they looked in the pictures vs. real life was night and day... they both looked absolutely nothing like they did in the pictures! i chatted on the phone w/ both of them a couple of times prior to meeting in person. them two girls probably thought they could win me over with their charm over the phone and that i'd overlook the fact that they weren't physically attractive. doesn't work that way. had to learn the hard way!
 

So Many Ways

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This reminds me of my match.com nightmare from 3 years ago. I get to her house and she opens the door and this bald woman stands in front of me. I mean, it looked like she took a chunk of her hair and just yanked it out. It was quite disturbing. I went through the date anyway. I wish I had just turned around and went home.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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diplomatic_lies

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I've never seen a bald woman before, except for those cancer patients. If I dated one, I think I'd shoot myself.
 

sexy_kuta

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happend to me once.. met a girl off the net.. she looked good

but she did it on purpose.. she darken her photos and make it blurry so i couldnt see her bad acne and **** hse looked different.. i cut her off since then didnt even say a word. i think she got the message
 

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makes me wonder what brought this on, DID YOU END UP WITH A CHUBBY????:p :rockon:
 
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