Ok, I have a girl that i know is interested in me, ive known her for about 2 or 3 weeks, I call every few days to say whats up and we hang out at school sometimes....i havent taken her out yet though i plan on doin that this weekend. The problem is she never calls me. She's a bizzy person and she says she's kinda absent minded at times...so I dont know if its cause of that or something else. So what do you guys suggest i do? Should i stop calling her all together or should i let things continue like they are?
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What to do when she doesn't call
- Thread starter Jay81
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Just because a woman listens to you and acts interested in what you say doesn't mean she really is. She might just be acting polite, while silently wishing that the date would hurry up and end, or that you would go away... and never come back.
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Helter Skelter
Master Don Juan
She's not interested in you okay?
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Good.... next thread
And since I am now a MASTER DON JUAN, do NOT second guess me.
Do we understand each other?
Good.... next thread
Walden
Master Don Juan
Ask her out already!
Why does everyone need to know they won't ever fail before they try. fer pity's sake just give it a go.
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Why does everyone need to know they won't ever fail before they try. fer pity's sake just give it a go.
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i would like to add my 2cents:
if i were in your shoes, ask her out to something casual and fun. keep it cheap...no need to bust out the wine and caviar. If she makes up some excuse about being busy, make this strike one and dont call her for a week. When the week is over, try again...if she makes another execuse then forget about it and put it on the back burner.
Keep yourself busy and call her at least 2 days in advnace of your planned outing.
It doesnt hurt to call her to ask her out, but after a while, you just have to take your losses.
if i were in your shoes, ask her out to something casual and fun. keep it cheap...no need to bust out the wine and caviar. If she makes up some excuse about being busy, make this strike one and dont call her for a week. When the week is over, try again...if she makes another execuse then forget about it and put it on the back burner.
Keep yourself busy and call her at least 2 days in advnace of your planned outing.
It doesnt hurt to call her to ask her out, but after a while, you just have to take your losses.
Paranoid
Senior Don Juan
You say that she is interested in you but she FORGETS to call you because she is busy?
Girls who are interested in you will make time ,come what may, and call you.
So hang on tight...don't call her for a week/10 days.See if she calls back.If not, next her.
There are many more babelfishes in the sea.
Girls who are interested in you will make time ,come what may, and call you.
So hang on tight...don't call her for a week/10 days.See if she calls back.If not, next her.
There are many more babelfishes in the sea.
Francisco d'Anconia
Master Don Juan
Why would she call if you haven't shown any interest in her other than hanging out at school and a couple of "friendly" phone calls? There's not really much in it for her until she realizes that you are worth her time.
Ok i know you guys are thinking i sound like a total ass saying that she's interested in me and she never calls...But when ever we hangout around campus were always holding hands or we are ducked off somewhere hugged up and making out. Everything is cool except for her never calling. I guess i should just take her out like everyone said and see what happens.
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I don't think she is very interested in him either. Girls will always go out of their way to be with a guy they like, and that includes phoning him constantly.
I don't think he should next the chick necessarily; he should make her one of his lowest priorities.
Just go out and find a hotter chick to hang around. One that would make her jealous or something.
I don't think he should next the chick necessarily; he should make her one of his lowest priorities.
Just go out and find a hotter chick to hang around. One that would make her jealous or something.
Huh?!
Hold on now!
You are sneaking off and hugging and making out? You shouldn't be to concerned with her not calling you, at least she's not bothering you with phone calls. You call her when YOU feel like talking.
I'd stop complaining about it, sounds to me like you should be hitting this chic already, and if your agonizing over phone calls, that's a chics job, stop that!
After reading your initial post it sounded like you were going NOWHERE fast! Now you say your getting some play, so it's all good.
Hold on now!
You are sneaking off and hugging and making out? You shouldn't be to concerned with her not calling you, at least she's not bothering you with phone calls. You call her when YOU feel like talking.
I'd stop complaining about it, sounds to me like you should be hitting this chic already, and if your agonizing over phone calls, that's a chics job, stop that!
After reading your initial post it sounded like you were going NOWHERE fast! Now you say your getting some play, so it's all good.
MR_PERFECT
Senior Don Juan
There is only one way you will know her true intentions: Ask her out! I've known girls that would stop by to see me. We would make-out, but it would go no further. They would also never go on an actual date. The date is the test, not the calling.
