SilverSliver
Don Juan
Theres this girls I kinda like, she was all over me for a bit and I went to slow so I got stuck in the "friend zone" although it would be a short saty, maybe 2 months. So I'm like thats fine, so be it, and started doing my own thing more and more. Now I haven't talked to her since last thursday, and before that it was a few days. We used to talk all the time and she always had time for me if I wanted to do something, and if I called her she probably still would. When she has used the word friend I told her straight out thats a BS word and I don't want to hear it. I said she could use "Nend" which means Non-friend. Yes kinda corny but it stopped the crap for awhile. So the last time I seen her in person she said something like "Think of me as one of your guy friends" which I told her why the 2 aren't the same using specific examples pertaining to her. Anyway so i figured screw it and started hunting around for her replacement. I have a couple of friends with special priv. 
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Now in retrospect especially after today she doesn't look as good, went from an 8 to a 5 or 6 in my mind. Especially after work today. I go to multiple medium sized companies and do there computers/networking. This New employee is just friggin' smokin' hot. At least a 9.0 and I never give anything a 10. Not to mention when I was talking with her and one of the "bosses there" I noticed everytime I'd shift a position she would mimick it. Not to mention a lot of hair play and sucking up. It was beautiful. ***Any advice on this first would be appreciated, trying to figure out how to take it to another level, I will be back there next monday.
So back to the other girl, She ends up getting back with her old BF. The patterns the same according to her friends and her, (She is in somewhat of the same social circle) He comes back for a couple of months, F'S her, moches off her, and then moves out. Her friends all hate him and give her a ton of crap. And everytime he comes back the time gets shorter. I kind of understand they dated for more then 10 years, but thats not my prob. This was 4 days ago.
She called my cell yesterday and I was to busy to answer and didn't call back. Today while playing poker online I exited a table signup right away, but she happened to be in it. I didn't think much of it just wanted to play a large tournament, not a single table. She was probably like WTF and calls again about 1 1/2 hours later. I was tired from lack of sleep and was sleeping so didn't answer again, nor call her back. I realized that I am playing ganji games without trying. My question is when do you know when to re-initiate contact? I wouldn't mind seeing if I could sleep with her, and she would make a good women if I wanted to settle down. I have other options though, but I don't know when to say when on the no contact. I might as well keep on doing it I figure and see what happens. Any help on these 2 items would be appreciated.
which helps. Now in retrospect especially after today she doesn't look as good, went from an 8 to a 5 or 6 in my mind. Especially after work today. I go to multiple medium sized companies and do there computers/networking. This New employee is just friggin' smokin' hot. At least a 9.0 and I never give anything a 10. Not to mention when I was talking with her and one of the "bosses there" I noticed everytime I'd shift a position she would mimick it. Not to mention a lot of hair play and sucking up. It was beautiful. ***Any advice on this first would be appreciated, trying to figure out how to take it to another level, I will be back there next monday.
So back to the other girl, She ends up getting back with her old BF. The patterns the same according to her friends and her, (She is in somewhat of the same social circle) He comes back for a couple of months, F'S her, moches off her, and then moves out. Her friends all hate him and give her a ton of crap. And everytime he comes back the time gets shorter. I kind of understand they dated for more then 10 years, but thats not my prob. This was 4 days ago.
She called my cell yesterday and I was to busy to answer and didn't call back. Today while playing poker online I exited a table signup right away, but she happened to be in it. I didn't think much of it just wanted to play a large tournament, not a single table. She was probably like WTF and calls again about 1 1/2 hours later. I was tired from lack of sleep and was sleeping so didn't answer again, nor call her back. I realized that I am playing ganji games without trying. My question is when do you know when to re-initiate contact? I wouldn't mind seeing if I could sleep with her, and she would make a good women if I wanted to settle down. I have other options though, but I don't know when to say when on the no contact. I might as well keep on doing it I figure and see what happens. Any help on these 2 items would be appreciated.