What to do when being amogged

[Addvrz]

I started reading this material since I was 14 yrs old, and it didn't work much in high school but now in college it's a whole different ball game. there girls are hitting on me in all directions, ( I guess I internalized some of the alpha male stuff) the college senior chicks can't guess I'm a freshman!! but anywayz I can't join a club without having some of the " natural" leaders in the school clubs trying to lower my value or amoging me... here are some examples I've noted;

1. Pulling on my shirt and wrinkling it saying he likes it;(chumping me)
(What I should've done) appreciated his shirt and pulled it beyond relief.

2. Taking my cap and putting it on the wrong way saying he "likes it"
(What should've done) snatched it and said "look but don't touch jerk face!!"

3.talking to some other guy or girl and taking up all my space like i don't exist.
don't have solution for this yet.

4. Asking me a question and when I answer he looks away as if not interested.

don't have a solution forthis yet.


so guys are there any better suggestions as to how I should react in order to give the greatest status-lowering sting to the amogger or any other things I should look out for from a amogger??? ( they usually catch me off guard, and I only realize this WAY after the fact...I want to be able to anticipate or counter it as it happens without punching the guy in the face)

 

[Raikojo17]

man, never anticipate. jus dont take crap from them. maybe next time they ask a dumb question than turn away , dont answer him. jus ignore him like he does u. tell them u dont appreciate their crap and u wont take it. stick up for urself man. you'lll kno wat to do when the time comes

 

[Maximus Rex]

Dude, not to sound like a broken record, but go read Neil Strauss' "The Game," he has a whole chapter on disarming and negating the AMOG.

 

[\O/]

http://www.bristollair.com/outer-game/techniques/tactics/amog-tactics.html

Check it out. Good stuff in there.

On a general note...just be confident and secure within yourself and you will naturally come up with comebacks without even thinking about it. Ignoring is the default way of dealing with amogs. Don't feed them.

 

[BigOlePappy]

What's wrong with punching them?
It's so much fun!

Left uppercut to a straight right will knock 99 percent of everyone out. :box:

 

[BigOlePappy]

What is amog btw?

 

[BigOlePappy]

I donno, I am only 5'5 so it seems harder from me to get respect from other males (think Joe Pesci) who are dressed of similar status. I learned to be scrappy at a very early age and started straining Brazillian Jiu Jitsu and Muay Thai Kickboxing.

Now when I knock them out, I get alot of respect from everyone.

The problem is, the older and older I get (19 now) this plan gives me lots of troubles!

I miss being able to fight freely

 

[Bussey]

Well one that's always worked for me no matter what the situation is in a really serious tone say 'Excuse me! I'm talking here, wait your turn.'

 

[\O/]

What is amog btw?

Alpha Male Of the Group or Alpha Male Other Guy

 

[BigOlePappy]

Man I go crazy around amog's. I think it is because I've had to fight so hard for respect my whole life because I am short. I think this is something I will never get rid of - the fact that if I am around other guys they are going to disrespect me and then i'm going to fight them.

:trouble:

Don't get me wrong. I WISH that most guys and I would get along, but I don't take disrespect from anyone. I think that angry short guy syndrome is true, because at the place I train at for fights, EVERYONE is an angry short guy, pretty much. Also in all my friend groups, the shortest people were the scrappiest and have been in the most fights.

Is there a way around this? I don't want to be kicked out of anymore places for fighting.
It usually only occurs where there are girls.

Why do people start fights with short people? I bench more than almost everyone I know who is bigger than me, I have been in more fights and am actually trained to fight. I wish there was some way to let people know this before they disrespected me. For example, when I was in Highschool, everyone KNEW not to mess with me or anyone in my clique. I would do ANYTHING to have the social proof that I had in high school everywhere else.

 

[blinkwatt]

There are two ways to "take care" of this;
~My favorite,just lift weights! When you reach the in shape/decent build people mess w/ you less and less. Now when you get built/big,no one mess w/ you. Think about it,would you mess w/ someone who is built?

~There were some good ones on that site listing above;

AMOG: (starts touching you to show dominance)
PUA: hahhaha, DUUUUDE, I'm not into guys man... dude, there's club-gay-whatever over there man.. hands off the merchandise buddy
(girls laugh at him, then he starts qualifying himself to you that he's not gay)

AMOG: (gets in your face)
PUA: (don't answer.. just SIT there quiet.. the more he says stuff to you, the more he's TRYING.. talking too long without an answer is QUALIFYING yourself.. so if he keeps trying to out-alpha you, and you don't answer, eventually he looks beta because he tried too hard to get your attention.. another trick is to make "let's get out of here" girlcode with your eyes to the girls (mimmick what they do to eachother when you do a bad set), and they'll leave with you)

The one just about staying quiet could be used on more then just AMOG. Say you happen to get in a situation like that at a park/club/school/work and so on. A guy gets in your face,you gonna argue w/ him and make yourself look like a idiot like he doing? Just look him in the eyes w/ a deep stare,stay quiet and after you are about to the point where you are gonna hit him,turn your back and leave. If he grabs you to try and turn you around,have at it,he has no place touching you.:box:

 

[blinkwatt]

2. Taking my cap and putting it on the wrong way saying he "likes it"(What should've done) snatched it and said "look but don't touch jerk face!!"

I would have said something along the lines of "Hey dude,that's my hat,get your own style."

4. Asking me a question and when I answer he looks away as if not interested.

Answer his question,and test to see if he is listening "blah blash blah(his face is turned). By the way I heard you love little boys, is it true?"
Try to catch him offgaurd to see if he is even paying attention.