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What to do when another guy dances with your girl?

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OK, let's say you are at the club with a potential and some other friends. You aren't exclusive with this girl so it's OK if either of you dance with other people. However, let's say you are dancing with her from the front and some guy who neither of you know comes and starts grinding from behind. What do you do? I really screwed up over the weekend because I didn't try to get him to back off and she lost some respect for me there. Do you say something to him? Pull her away somehow?
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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Not sure what the reaction will be from others on here but here is my take.

Hell no, let them go at it and have fun. Maybe do some sandwich action and see who she presser harder against. If the interest level is going to not be with me simply go dance by yourself or with someone else. She is a big girl and should be able to handle the situation herself. She knows how to back them off if she wants to, I would tell her as much if she gave me flack over it.
 
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Yeah, she is a big girl. IF he doesnt understand words, and starts using strenght, its time for dave to come in and kick some a$$.
 
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Right there, you have to be professional and let loose to have fun. Don't let one thing like that piss you off. It's not worth it, to pull off a guy who's trying to have more fun then you, and you look bad infront of that potential. Things happen, move on.
 
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Look for her reaction, this is the key. If she seems irritated pull her to the other side of you and give the guy a don't do that sh!t look. You may even look her square in the eye and ask her if shes ok. The key is don't over react but let her know you're ready to take charge. If shes ok with it then go with the flow. You dont want to look like a jealous a$$.
 

Just because a woman listens to you and acts interested in what you say doesn't mean she really is. She might just be acting polite, while silently wishing that the date would hurry up and end, or that you would go away... and never come back.

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Just ask her if she minds having the other guy behind her. If she doesn't mind, just say 'cool' and act like the other guy doesn't exist.

If she does, just place both your hands around her waiste and guide her around to where you were dancing. Your back should be at the annoying guy and her eyes should be locked on yours in appreciation.

Just remember to do it like it's no big deal, as if the other guy was just a knat and you swooshed him away.:D
 
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