what to do when a girl turns cold?

[mojo16]

last week, i got a text from a girl ive been tuning asking me to come over on saturday night:

"hey, on sat my sister is going away, and my parents will be interstate, so i was wondering if you wanted to come over"?

I went over obviously, we watched TV and slowly got closer. she never been kissed before, and shes pretty shy and a really nice girl, so i imagine her first kiss is something pretty important to her. anyways i kissed her, she seemed slightly hesitant to begin but relaxed soon and started initiating more kissing and was giggling etc, smiling the whole time and even played with my lips with her finger haha....

the next night i texted her, (i debated whether to text her all day, but i think i had to since it was her first kiss and i didnt want to seem like i was just kissing and bailing on her) so i texted her and just said what ya doin etc, traded 2 texts then i didnt reply, i didnt want to seem needy.

Anyway, ever since then she has turned totally cold on me, im 100% sure i havent done anything to offend her, but im getting the feeling she is not telling me something, i think its likely that she likes me, and perhaps doesnt want to like me, so she is trying to kill the spark we have by acting cold and distant..

anyway ideas of why she might be acting this way? and how should i respond to this, obviously im not going to chase her when shes acting like this, but i will see her at a party tomoro night and cannot figure out what (if anything) i should say to her?

 

[pipe007]

if you see her at the party, talk to her, get a feel of where she is at with you.... try to get closer and see if she is ok with it.. make a move

if she stops you, then you will get your answer.

if she turns cold, you turn COLDER!

if she walks away, you shut the door, and never let her in.

if she says I gotta go, you say BYE.

get it?

 

[Borknagar]

I'd totally diss her, in fact hook up with another ***** at the party, and make sure she sees it.

 

[john_trenor]

Just be your self and try talking to her more often. Use small talk but gradually become interested in what she is about. This will give you some insight on how to draw her attention towards yourself. Just be a good listener at first. After that it’s smooth sailing. And don't get to physical she might feel confused. Good luck and stay well.

 

[Pancho]

Do what I do when a girl turns cold....bury the body before the cops have a chance to check the trunk.

 

[tafakna]

Don't take the wrong way, but after reading things like 'she playing with your mouth with her fingers' and 'pretty important to her' I can't help get the feeling that you're into this girl.

And if I get this impression by reading a couple of sentences, you can be sure that you appeared a lot needier to her than you might imagine.

What's the update since the party yesterday?