"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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What to do when a girl talks up her boyfriend?

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So I was talking in a group of friends today and this girl I always talk to, half friendzoned, tells me, "My boyfriend is taller than you hahaha" and "My boyfriend is bigger than you"

I know she said it in a somehow jokingly way but I would like to know what a good witty reply would be in that situation cus I didnt know what to say.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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no such thing as half friend zoned....i would ignore her and treat her like a child...what an idiot she sounds like...you could also laugh and say yeah, but your BF has to date you and i don't...
 
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zinc4 said:
no such thing as half friend zoned....i would ignore her and treat her like a child...what an idiot she sounds like...you could also laugh and say yeah, but your BF has to date you and i don't...
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See these are the kind of replies I never think of. How do I get good at making up quick witty answers?

Also treat her like a kid how? Just never take her seriously?

Yea she can be a lil *****. When I try to flirt with her and stuff she always acts like she has no interest in me (Shes a 9.99 tho :cuss: ) but as soon as she finds out I went partying, hooked up with girls, or a girl likes me, she gets all defensive and tells me its not good to be a manwhor*e.
 
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cali4nialove said:
See these are the kind of replies I never think of. How do I get good at making up quick witty answers?

Also treat her like a kid how? Just never take her seriously?

Yea she can be a lil *****. When I try to flirt with her and stuff she always acts like she has no interest in me (Shes a 9.99 tho :cuss: ) but as soon as she finds out I went partying, hooked up with girls, or a girl likes me, she gets all defensive and tells me its not good to be a manwhor*e.
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IMO don't flirt with taken girls...i only do it if the girl is basically begging to cheat on the guy..but other than that is is just not a good practice for a number of reasons...and looks desperate.

Yeah, never take her seriously and laugh at her when she says something stupid like it's an inside joke about her and when she says why are you laughing...just roll your eyes and say nothing it's over your head or something like that...

Also about the man*****...be proud of it..never act embarrassed because of what she thinks...you could say better to be a man***** than be a man slave stuck with some crazy broad like yourself...why would i ever tie myself down for one woman when there are so many to go around?

I am guessing you are pretty young.....nothing wrong with being a man ***** in your younger days.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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IMO don't flirt with taken girls...i only do it if the girl is basically begging to cheat on the guy..but other than that is is just not a good practice for a number of reasons...and looks desperate.

Yeah, never take her seriously and laugh at her when she says something stupid like it's an inside joke about her and when she says why are you laughing...just roll your eyes and say nothing it's over your head or something like that...

Also about the man*****...be proud of it..never act embarrassed because of what she thinks...you could say better to be a man***** than be a man slave stuck with some crazy broad like yourself...why would i ever tie myself down for one woman when there are so many to go around?

I am guessing you are pretty young.....nothing wrong with being a man ***** in your younger days.
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Thanks man. Actually I'm really not a manwhor*. I want to be because Im pretty young, but I have a hard time setting up dates because my parents are literally insane about chicks, so I have to live a secret life. But for some reason, many people get the perception that Im a man***** because of my personality at school.

Also, I have a hard time not being a ***** and making a move on a girl, which is why Im here. But I've been improving rapidly over the past few months :D
 
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